California Legalizes Gay Marriage
Thu, May 15, 2008 at 11:11:18 am PDT
In an election year, the California Supreme Court has legalized gay marriage.
Hang on to your hats.
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Thu, May 15, 2008 at 11:11:18 am PDT
In an election year, the California Supreme Court has legalized gay marriage.
Hang on to your hats.
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Who Watches the Watchmen? Thu, May 15, 2008 11:12:02am |
Four lawyers trump the voters of California. Heh™.
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JohnnyReb Thu, May 15, 2008 11:12:47am |
Remeber this is California, the land of fruits and nuts.
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Killgore Trout Thu, May 15, 2008 11:12:48am |
I don't want to be forced into a gay marriage! Why would the state oppress us this way?
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itellu3times Thu, May 15, 2008 11:13:21am |
So now John McCain can live openly with the Republican Party?
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newsjunkie_ky Thu, May 15, 2008 11:13:52am |
A parade will be held in SF on Saturday. Oh wait, there is a parade EVERY Saturday.
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joncelli Thu, May 15, 2008 11:14:21am |
Hummm. Still time for defense of marriage referendums in various states to be set up? Could be a wedge issue for the Republicans.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:14:22am |
The big question: "Full faith & credit"?
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Dahveed Thu, May 15, 2008 11:14:27am |
Activist judges. When you can't win inthe court of public opinion you file a lawsuit. You find enough liberal judges and they will agree to anything.
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Uncle Joe Thu, May 15, 2008 11:14:47am |
Yeah, stay home because McCain's a chump! The pendulum will surely swing back once the Dems have locked up the courts, the bureaucracy and legislated every nitwit pet agenda they can think of. Then we can really show 'em!
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rwmofo Thu, May 15, 2008 11:14:56am |
Divorce lawyers are out shopping for that new vacation home. Please leave a message.
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P. Aaron Thu, May 15, 2008 11:15:23am |
Let it all hang out. Pretty soon they'll be nothing to live for...nothing to die for.
The USA=Europe.
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Honorary Yooper Thu, May 15, 2008 11:15:33am |
Since when did the courts get to make the law? I thought that Californians had made their choice known by a referendum?
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:15:43am |
The bad news: This will only push weddings to a whole new level of opulence.
/shamlessly stolen from "The Onion"
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redheadredstate Thu, May 15, 2008 11:15:54am |
They needed to legalize it? I didn't see much evidence that anyone was trying to stop it did you? My cousin is a cop in San Fran, oh the stories he tells about being hit on by gay men. He used to work in Vice and I cannot share some of those stories with you. I cannot wait for the implosion!
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Diamond Bullet Thu, May 15, 2008 11:16:22am |
Legalized? I'm surprised they didn't make it mandatory.
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joncelli Thu, May 15, 2008 11:16:28am |
re: #12 Occasional Reader
Precisely. It's a foot in the door -- if a marriage is legal in California, then you've got to recognize it in Kansas...although specifically banning it might get you around that. That's a legal question, and I don't even play a lawyer on TV.
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lawhawk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:17:17am |
There's a move to put a proposition on the ballot in November that would amend the state constitution to clearly spell out that marriage is between a man and a woman, but the Court could rule that that violates the Constitution and would not be permissible.
Never mind that the law struck down today was passed by the voters with a 60% majority.
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Nevergiveup Thu, May 15, 2008 11:17:27am |
Well since this now seems headed to the Ballot in CA this November, it may only help our cause by mobilizing the base like the Mass same sex debate did last time out.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:17:36am |
re: #15 rwmofo
Divorce lawyers are out shopping for that new vacation home. Please leave a message.
LOL!
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Alouette Thu, May 15, 2008 11:17:36am |
So much for the will of the people, judges know better than the lower voting classes.
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redheadredstate Thu, May 15, 2008 11:17:40am |
# 22
And soon they will do away with the Governorship and elect a Queen.
CLASSIC!
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SouthAmericanWay Thu, May 15, 2008 11:17:56am |
It would seem that they're working for the GOP or something... It is wonderful that it brings close to home for conservatives what may happen if they stay home this election cycle.
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offendi Thu, May 15, 2008 11:18:10am |
Does this dovetail in some way with some of Pastor Manning's theories?
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Tumulus11 Thu, May 15, 2008 11:18:19am |
'It's for the children.'
. Oh, wait, no it's not.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:18:23am |
re: #27 lawhawk
but the Court could rule that that violates the Constitution and would not be permissible
The Court could rule that a proposed amendment to the Constitution is unconstitutional?!
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Killgore Trout Thu, May 15, 2008 11:18:38am |
re: #27 lawhawk
Yes, constitutional bans on gay marriage are very unpopular and will never happen.
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mojo9 Thu, May 15, 2008 11:19:00am |
BFD! California is like a bowl of granola. after the fruits and nuts, all you have is flakes.
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sngnsgt Thu, May 15, 2008 11:19:33am |
I now pronounce you husband and husband. Who gets the pretty ring?
-- * --
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Sponge Thu, May 15, 2008 11:19:36am |
re: #16 pat
And cover your butt.
Butt to the wall, man......
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Cygnus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:20:47am |
This will go nicely with the... ahem... "M"-a-thon coming up on the 25th. California has become a moral cesspool.
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pat Thu, May 15, 2008 11:21:08am |
re: #36 Killgore Trout
Yes, constitutional bans on gay marriage are very unpopular and will never happen.
LOL. My State, the bluest in the nation, changed it's Constitution immediately after our Court pulled this stunt. The Referendum was going to be razor thin, according to the MSM, with the gays prevailing. Passed 67%.
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lawhawk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:21:28am |
re: #35 Occasional Reader
Consider that some intrepid lawyer could seek to strike down the ballot proposal claiming that it is unconstitutional. Watch for that scenario.
Or, the Cal. S.Ct. could adopt the Mass S.Ct. position that its decision was not reversible by constitutional amendment; the court said it would strike such an amendment as a violation of the existing provisions of the state constitution.
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Honorary Yooper Thu, May 15, 2008 11:21:34am |
re: #23 Diamond Bullet
Legalized? I'm surprised they didn't make it mandatory.
Nah. It'd take the 9th Circuit to do that.
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Kulhwch Thu, May 15, 2008 11:21:35am |
re: #7 Sharmuta
They meant "gay" as in happy, right?
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You're talking mythical, right?
}:) [I, being a divorce survivor ... ]
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:21:53am |
re: #17 P. Aaron
Let it all hang out. Pretty soon they'll be nothing to live for...nothing to die for.
Whereas the methodology is certainly questionable (judges striking down the will of the people), I don't agree that legal gay marriages are the end of civilization and the world.
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RoyalCanadian Thu, May 15, 2008 11:22:07am |
One man's vicotry is another man's bummer. Lawyers made millions in the lead up to gay marriage and they will make billions with gay divorce. No wonder they stand behind gays.
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pat Thu, May 15, 2008 11:22:23am |
When is the Court going to declare the Constitution unConstitutional?
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Nevergiveup Thu, May 15, 2008 11:22:28am |
If you can't define marriage as between a man and a women, why do they define marriage as only between one man and one "other". I mean then why is polygamy wrong? just pointing out were this may be heading.
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zmdavid Thu, May 15, 2008 11:22:45am |
re: #35 Occasional Reader
The Court could rule that a proposed amendment to the Constitution is unconstitutional?!
Yes. The court is God. (At least in their view)
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:23:27am |
re: #37 pat
Where does Obama stand?
He's a long-legged pimp.
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:23:37am |
re: #48 JamesTKirk
Then where do you draw the line? Two adults?
Legalized polygamy? What about their "rights"?
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rwmofo Thu, May 15, 2008 11:23:49am |
re: #34 Tumulus11
. Oh, wait, no it's not.
Actually you're on to something. When conservatives "come out" against this CHILDREN WILL STARVE! ...according to Barbara Boxer.
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cblesz Thu, May 15, 2008 11:23:55am |
re: #14 Uncle Joe
Yeah, stay home because McCain's a chump! The pendulum will surely swing back once the Dems have locked up the courts, the bureaucracy and legislated every nitwit pet agenda they can think of. Then we can really show 'em!
EXACTLY! See, this is what we can expect from the SCOTUS once Barry gets elected. More and more activist judges just like Ruth Bader Ginsberg. This is the exact argument for voting FOR McCain OR against Barry.
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world b. free Thu, May 15, 2008 11:24:00am |
If only James Bond hadn't thwarted Christopher Walken's plans in "View to a Kill" to detonate dynamite all along the San Andreas Fault Line and plunge California into the ocean.
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lawhawk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:24:03am |
If this case doesn't get the GOP energized about trying to limit the influence of activist courts, nothing will... Elections have repercussions and outcomes - and if you stand on the sidelines in a snit because you don't like McCain, you're going to get exactly what you deserve - even more activist judges that will pump out activist decisions and not based on the law. Penumbras and emanations indeed.
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 11:24:30am |
re: #50 pat
When is the Court going to declare the Constitution unConstitutional?
Give obama the White House and a few Supreme Court picks....
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karmic_inquisitor Thu, May 15, 2008 11:24:32am |
What gets me about this is that the court overturned and ammendment to the state constitution.
This is judicial activism on steroids.
Liberals may hail this as a great decision, but the same court could use the same power to dismiss the legislature and the governor and rule by decree.
What is going to stop them - the state constitution?
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USA Thu, May 15, 2008 11:24:44am |
Man and beast are next. Of course, state's will start with civil unions, then find them unacceptable alternatives to marriage.
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stead63 Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:03am |
California's New Slogan: Where the voice of the people in a Democracy just dont matter.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:10am |
re: #28 Nevergiveup
...this November, it may only help our cause by mobilizing the base like the Mass same sex debate did last time out.
Make a big issue of this, and you'll kill any chance of major Democratic crossover votes to McCain (all those people who said they'd vote for him if their choice wasn't the Dem nominee).
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:15am |
re: #43 Cygnus
This will go nicely with the... ahem... "M"-a-thon coming up on the 25th. California has become a moral cesspool.
What's an "M"-a-thon?
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Cygnus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:24am |
re: #59 world b. free
If only James Bond hadn't thwarted Christopher Walken's plans in "View to a Kill" to detonate dynamite all along the San Andreas Fault Line and plunge California into the ocean.
And Superman stopped Lex Luthor from doing the same thing.
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Nevergiveup Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:33am |
re: #60 lawhawk
If this case doesn't get the GOP energized about trying to limit the influence of activist courts, nothing will... Elections have repercussions and outcomes - and if you stand on the sidelines in a snit because you don't like McCain, you're going to get exactly what you deserve - even more activist judges that will pump out activist decisions and not based on the law. Penumbras and emanations indeed.
Other than "Penumbras and emanations"( got to give me time to look them up). What he said!
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:37am |
I just think the courts and legislatures have better things to do.
Like preventing the sharia law which would make Gay marriage a non-issue.....big time
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zmdavid Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:40am |
re: #63 USA
Man and beast are next. Of course, state's will start with civil unions, then find them unacceptable alternatives to marriage.
Polygamy will come before that.
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cod_is_great Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:43am |
I'll take this over sharia any day. And she shouldn't forget that one of our greatest commentators on the subject of creeping sharia, Bruce Bawer, lives with a man.
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newsjunkie_ky Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:54am |
I love my Country more than I hate McCain.
I love that bumper sticker.
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Rogue198 Thu, May 15, 2008 11:25:57am |
re: #50 pat
When is the Court going to declare the Constitution unConstitutional?
That's what the Paulians want to do
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Nevergiveup Thu, May 15, 2008 11:26:00am |
re: #66 JamesTKirk
Make a big issue of this, and you'll kill any chance of major Democratic crossover votes to McCain (all those people who said they'd vote for him if their choice wasn't the Dem nominee).
Got a point there.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:26:06am |
For some reason, even though I live at the epicenter of the gay marriage movement, this issue leaves me completely unmoved, one way or the other. To me, it's an unimportant side-issue affecting very few people that has been blown way out of proportion by both sides, on purpose.
If forced to take a stand, I'd have to come donw on the laissez-faire side of things: Marry whoever (or whatever) you want to marry. What's it got to do with me?
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:26:19am |
re: #55 Cygnus
What came first, Dick or "dick"?
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:26:25am |
re: #49 RoyalCanadian
One man's vicotry is another man's bummer. Lawyers made millions in the lead up to gay marriage and they will make billions with gay divorce. No wonder they stand behind gays.
Gonna' refrain.
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cblesz Thu, May 15, 2008 11:26:49am |
This is perfect...the GOP and McCain ought to make the commercials and ads NOW! Simply bring this freaking activist court's decision to the public and tell them that this is exactly what they are voting for if they vote for Obama's change! Oh, i forgot, the republicans were neutered sometime ago and won't do it...
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 11:27:00am |
re: #78 zombie
my thoughts exactly.
Elizabeth Taylor did more damage to marriage than adam and steve
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WrathofG-d Thu, May 15, 2008 11:27:04am |
What is the big deal exactly? The people of California are extreme leftists who would support the privilege of Homosexuals to "marry" eachother, and the Government passed a bill saying such.
This is a State's rights issue, and has been decided upon by this State.
This IS California we are talking about.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:27:21am |
re: #51 Nevergiveup
If you can't define marriage as between a man and a women, why do they define marriage as only between one man and one "other". I mean then why is polygamy wrong? just pointing out were this may be heading.
Or, group marriage.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:27:26am |
re: #45 lawhawk
Or, the Cal. S.Ct. could adopt the Mass S.Ct. position that its decision was not reversible by constitutional amendment; the court said it would strike such an amendment as a violation of the existing provisions of the state constitution.
Wow. I had not heard that. It's simply... beyond parody.
"Your proposed amendment would violate the existing Constitution!"
Er... yeah, that's, um, kind of the point.
"SILENCE! We have spoken! So it is written, so it shall be done!"
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Kulhwch Thu, May 15, 2008 11:27:49am |
re: #59 world b. free
If only James Bond hadn't thwarted Christopher Walken's plans in "View to a Kill" to detonate dynamite all along the San Andreas Fault Line and plunge California into the ocean.
Or Superman hadn't thwarted Lex Luthor's plans in "Superman" to detonate nuclear weapons all along the San Andreas Fault Line and plunge California into the ocean.
}:) [Wait, that thinking is faulty ... ]
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:27:54am |
re: #66 JamesTKirk
"crossover votes" ? Hmmmm, like "swing votes"?
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stead63 Thu, May 15, 2008 11:27:58am |
re: #51 Nevergiveup
If you can't define marriage as between a man and a women, why do they define marriage as only between one man and one "other". I mean then why is polygamy wrong? just pointing out were this may be heading.
thats just around the corner I fully agree. What about a man and a horse? I mean the gate's standing wide open
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karmic_inquisitor Thu, May 15, 2008 11:28:02am |
re: #14 Uncle Joe
Yeah, stay home because McCain's a chump! The pendulum will surely
swing back once the Dems have locked up the courts, the bureaucracy and
legislated every nitwit pet agenda they can think of. Then we can
really show 'em!
In 40 years. Just like the New Deal. We will be dead when the "pendulum swings back."
Dems have a way of hanging on to power. Decisions like this one give us insight into how.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:28:05am |
re: #78 zombie
For some reason, even though I live at the epicenter of the gay marriage movement, this issue leaves me completely unmoved, one way or the other. To me, it's an unimportant side-issue affecting very few people that has been blown way out of proportion by both sides, on purpose.
If forced to take a stand, I'd have to come donw on the laissez-faire side of things: Marry whoever (or whatever) you want to marry. What's it got to do with me?
Exactly. Doesn't change my marriage in any way, shape, or form.
Besides, marriage is much healthier than random sex in bathhouses with thousands of strangers. And I'd rather see people at gay pride marches flashes their wedding rings than ... well, what they're flashing now.
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MigueldowninMexico Thu, May 15, 2008 11:28:30am |
This is the next enlightened step California should take.
Already being considered by some Europeans.
Go all the way! Why stop at a third of it?
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quickjustice Thu, May 15, 2008 11:28:34am |
The N.Y. Court of Appeals said it was up to the N.Y. legislature, elected by the people, to make this decision. By taking this decision away from the California legislature, the California Supreme Court exposes its arrogance and its contempt both for the elected California legislature, the elected governor of California, and the people of California.
Time for another one of your legendary Propositions, Californians!
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rawmuse Thu, May 15, 2008 11:29:05am |
Oh, well, why should straights be the only ones who are miserable?
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Cygnus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:29:12am |
re: #67 MandyManners
What's an "M"-a-thon?
Look here. Sorry, I was too much of a wimp to type it out.
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kyleb Thu, May 15, 2008 11:29:17am |
Can't we just call them Butt Buddies? I mean that sounds like a fair compromise and a more accurate term to boot.
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cblesz Thu, May 15, 2008 11:29:33am |
re: #84 WrathofG-d
What is the big deal exactly? The people of California are extreme leftists who would support the privilege of Homosexuals to "marry" eachother, and the Government passed a bill saying such.
This is a State's rights issue, and has been decided upon by this State.
This IS California we are talking about.
Um, I live in California and resent that remark. I think you really need to distinguish NORTHERN CALIFORNIA (San Fran, berkely) with Southern California. And, may I ask where you live?
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VegasRick Thu, May 15, 2008 11:30:21am |
re: #95 Cygnus
Look here. Sorry, I was too much of a wimp to type it out.
That should cum with some kind of warning!
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:30:36am |
re: #43 Cygnus
This will go nicely with the... ahem... "M"-a-thon coming up on the 25th. California has become a moral cesspool.
The masturbate-a-thon is mostly a straight thing.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:30:37am |
re: #78 zombie
For some reason, even though I live at the epicenter of the gay marriage movement, this issue leaves me completely unmoved, one way or the other.
I am sorta kinda with you... EXCEPT for the glaring judicial activism aspect to the whole thing. Go back and read what lawhawk posted about the Mass. court; "our decision cannot be undone, even by constitutional amendment, so there!" Very disturbing.
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:30:38am |
re: #91 JamesTKirk
"random sex in bathhouses with thousands of strangers"
Do you really think that would stop if gays could be legally married?
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Kulhwch Thu, May 15, 2008 11:30:41am |
re: #78 zombie
For some reason, even though I live at the epicenter of the gay marriage movement, this issue leaves me completely unmoved, one way or the other. To me, it's an unimportant side-issue affecting very few people that has been blown way out of proportion by both sides, on purpose.
If forced to take a stand, I'd have to come donw on the laissez-faire side of things: Marry whoever (or whatever) you want to marry. What's it got to do with me?
Exactly. And I only live 90 miles from said same epicenter ... right in the middle of Sacramento ...
}:) [BUT I live nowhere near Arnold, so don't anyone come over ... ]
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lawhawk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:30:58am |
re: #84 WrathofG-d
There's a Constitutional provision called full faith and credit, that would extend that decision to every other state in the country. If you're in New Jersey or Montana, you'd have to accept the marriage between two people married in California under their law, even if you disagree with the law.
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NoSubmission Thu, May 15, 2008 11:31:10am |
re: #78 zombie
For some reason, even though I live at the epicenter of the gay marriage movement, this issue leaves me completely unmoved, one way or the other. To me, it's an unimportant side-issue affecting very few people that has been blown way out of proportion by both sides, on purpose.If forced to take a stand, I'd have to come donw on the laissez-faire side of things: Marry whoever (or whatever) you want to marry. What's it got to do with me?
I agree.
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Cygnus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:31:12am |
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:31:42am |
re: #86 Occasional Reader
Wow. I had not heard that. It's simply... beyond parody.
"Your proposed amendment would violate the existing Constitution!"
Er... yeah, that's, um, kind of the point.
"SILENCE! We have spoken! So it is written, so it shall be done!"
I get this image of Q in the ST:TNG episode "Encounter at Farpoint."
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rwmofo Thu, May 15, 2008 11:31:51am |
re: #60 lawhawk
If this case doesn't get the GOP energized about trying to limit the influence of activist courts, nothing will... Elections have repercussions and outcomes - and if you stand on the sidelines in a snit because you don't like McCain, you're going to get exactly what you deserve - even more activist judges that will pump out activist decisions and not based on the law. Penumbras and emanations indeed.
I totally agree. The "centrist" Clinton appointed Ginsburg and Breyer who vote just left of Karl Marx and--SURPRISE!--they're still on the court.
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rawmuse Thu, May 15, 2008 11:31:51am |
re: #103 lawhawk
There's a Constitutional provision called full faith and credit, that would extend that decision to every other state in the country. If you're in New Jersey or Montana, you'd have to accept the marriage between two people married in California under their law, even if you disagree with the law.
Also known as "reciprocity". It does not work with guns, though.
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joncelli Thu, May 15, 2008 11:31:56am |
re: #78 zombie
That would be my attitude too if marriage didn't have state sanction (and by "state" I mean "sanction by the individual states -- this is a local issue in which the Feds have no right to interfere). The state does sanction marriages, though, so marriage takes on the role of an institution that can be used to mainstream an agenda. I would just as soon make marriage a purely private matter, devoid of state interference, but since it isn't, alternate definitions of marriage have to be defeated.
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karmic_inquisitor Thu, May 15, 2008 11:31:59am |
re: #78 zombie
For some reason, even though I live at the epicenter of the gay
marriage movement, this issue leaves me completely unmoved, one way or
the other. To me, it's an unimportant side-issue affecting very few
people that has been blown way out of proportion by both sides, on
purpose.If forced to take a stand, I'd have to come donw on
the laissez-faire side of things: Marry whoever (or whatever) you want
to marry. What's it got to do with me?
While I agree with you on the issue itself (I am basically libertarian), what about the state constitution itself?
The court just said that it can declare any ammendment to the state constitution as unconstitutional.
That translates into "the constitution is whatever we want it to be."
I have a HUGE problem with that.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:32:00am |
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:32:29am |
re: #84 WrathofG-d
What is the big deal exactly? The people of California are extreme leftists who would support the privilege of Homosexuals to "marry" eachother, and the Government passed a bill saying such.
This is a State's rights issue, and has been decided upon by this State.
This IS California we are talking about.
What if the couple decides to move to a conservative state, such as West Virginia?
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Cygnus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:32:31am |
re: #98 VegasRick
That should cum with some kind of warning!
It was posted a couple of days ago. Turned out to be one of the funniest threads I've ever read!
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:32:35am |
re: #91 JamesTKirk
Besides, marriage is much healthier than random sex in bathhouses with thousands of strangers. And I'd rather see people at gay pride marches flashes their wedding rings than ... well, what they're flashing now.
I don't really think the Folsom Street crowd were just waiting all along for a legal justification to settle down into stable, monogamous marriages, and join the PTA. But that's just me.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:33:06am |
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:33:19am |
re: #101 BuddyG
"random sex in bathhouses with thousands of strangers"
Do you really think that would stop if gays could be legally married?
No, any more than every single straight person is monogamous due to the availability of straight marriage.
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VegasRick Thu, May 15, 2008 11:33:22am |
re: #105 Cygnus
Inquiring minds want to know. :)
I'm glad I didn't take the nic VegasDick.
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WrathofG-d Thu, May 15, 2008 11:33:42am |
re: #97 cblesz
I live in the Los Angeles area. (born and raised)
There are those of us that would disagree with the uber Leftistness of California, but that is the State we live in.
No offense meant.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:33:44am |
re: #99 zombie
The masturbate-a-thon is mostly a straight thing.
Homosexuals don't do that?
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rwmofo Thu, May 15, 2008 11:33:46am |
re: #96 kyleb
Can't we just call them Butt Buddies? I mean that sounds like a fair compromise and a more accurate term to boot.
They say that the cowboy in the Village People was a Rump Ranger.
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 11:34:08am |
re: #110 karmic_inquisitor
The court just said that it can declare any ammendment to the state constitution as unconstitutional.
The inmates are running the loony bin
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Uncle Joe Thu, May 15, 2008 11:34:16am |
re: #38 mojo9
BFD! California is like a bowl of granola. after the fruits and nuts, all you have is flakes.
Although I share your frustration with California lunacy, I was born in California, have lived here all my life, and can tell you that most of the fruits, nuts and flakes have been imported from every state in the union (and even from overseas) because of hyperliberal promotion by San Francisco and Hollywood. They know how to recruit!
Meanwhile, the Republican Party makes no attempt to even have a presence here and have abandoned one of the nation's largest, most important states to the kooks. How do you think that makes Republicans here feel? Look at the voting record in the middle and eastern part of the state (away from SF and Hollywood). Huge areas of the state vote Republican trying to turn things around but the Republicans only go the McCain/Ahnold route and parrot and pander to leftists. They don't have any firm principles and do a terrible job of selling very saleable conservative ideas to the people here. So what happens? More and more conservatives just give up. They move out of state and more fanatical leftists move in.
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Spider Mensch Thu, May 15, 2008 11:34:22am |
it would take a few years to prove out, but it will be interesting to see if the divorce rate among gay couples is higher than hetero couples. I have a strange inkiling it just might be. but I'll leave that to the sociologists to speculate why.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:34:23am |
re: #109 joncelli
That would be my attitude too if marriage didn't have state sanction (and by "state" I mean "sanction by the individual states -- this is a local issue in which the Feds have no right to interfere). The state does sanction marriages, though, so marriage takes on the role of an institution that can be used to mainstream an agenda. I would just as soon make marriage a purely private matter, devoid of state interference, but since it isn't, alternate definitions of marriage have to be defeated.
And how does that state sanction threaten you so much?
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:34:36am |
re: #117 JamesTKirk
Then it isn't a good arguement for gay marriage
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WrathofG-d Thu, May 15, 2008 11:34:43am |
re: #103 lawhawk
I'd repeal the ff&C clause and go back to a states rights approach. We are way too far off from what the Constitution permits.
This is a great opportunity to start peeling back.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:34:51am |
re: #63 USA
Man and beast are next.
Actually, the reason that's not going to happen is not any moral opposition to man-animal marriage, but because the animal is not able to "give consent." So, it'll never happen -- unless someone tries to marry one of those chimps who know sign language.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:35:10am |
re: #122 rwmofo
They say that the cowboy in the Village People was a Rump Ranger.
As opposed to all the rest of the Village People how?
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WrathofG-d Thu, May 15, 2008 11:35:44am |
re: #130 zombie
Actually, the reason that's not going to happen is not any moral opposition to man-animal marriage, but because the animal is not able to "give consent." So, it'll never happen -- unless someone tries to marry one of those chimps who know sign language.
ok then....brother and sister are next.
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Russkilitlover Thu, May 15, 2008 11:35:45am |
re: #38 mojo9
BFD! California is like a bowl of granola. after the fruits and nuts, all you have is flakes.
And....
Year-round fabulous weather
Yosemite
Kings Canyon
Mt. Shasta
Redwoods
1,000 miles of awe inspiring beaches
Rolling golden hills
Agriculture to feed the world
Joshua Tree National Park
Mammoth
Tahoe
Yup. Sure sucks here.
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:35:50am |
re: #129 Macker
Dang! What store is that in?
Don't ask, don't tell
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Widow'smight Thu, May 15, 2008 11:36:01am |
re: #91 JamesTKirk
I seriously doubt Gays and Lesbians will flock to ? to get married, and I doubt the piece of paper will change their habits. The problem here is that it is framed that marriage is a "Right", and it is not. You give up rights when you get married. Marriage is an obligation.
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karmic_inquisitor Thu, May 15, 2008 11:36:30am |
Judicial activism simply invalidates the entire idea of a Constitution.
A Constitution is a contract. The founders of this country made the contract explicit after having promoted the enlightenment era idea of a "social contract" - that a government serves by the permission of the governed.
Here we have the Government deciding that the very contract with the Governed can be changed unilaterally by the Government.
That is no longer a contract.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:36:32am |
re: #128 WrathofG-d
I'd repeal the ff&C clause
Um, no. That's called "throwing out the baby with the bathwater". We'd cease to be a country, and become a collection of city-states. Easy pickings for the commies and jihadists.
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The Pulchritudinous Patriot Thu, May 15, 2008 11:36:41am |
re: #59 world b. free
If only James Bond hadn't thwarted Christopher Walken's plans in "View to a Kill" to detonate dynamite all along the San Andreas Fault Line and plunge California into the ocean.
Actually, I blame Superman, and all because his big head stopped working at the thought of Lois Lane.
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Cygnus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:36:43am |
re: #132 MandyManners
I snickeed and laughed a long time.
I had to get away from it for a while because I was at work and uncontrollable laughter was threatening to break out.
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unreconstructed rebel Thu, May 15, 2008 11:36:54am |
OT, but
Obama Takes Issue With Bush Foreign Policy Speech
A bit touchy there, ain't we, Barry? Well, if the shoe fits ...
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Sol Roth Thu, May 15, 2008 11:37:03am |
Unless a super majority of homosexual unions adopt and raise children, this can be nothing more that the furtherance of Marxism (nuclear family destruction). Legal instruments already exist that allow homosexuals to transfer property and appoint power of attorney for health care; the biggest arguments for this favoring of a minority population at the expense of ALL our freedoms.
Feh.
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rawmuse Thu, May 15, 2008 11:37:06am |
re: #136 Widow'smight
I agree. I can remember when gays would not dream of marriage. That was for squares. Too restrictive.
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Maximu§ Thu, May 15, 2008 11:37:21am |
I have a Gay client who is raising a little girl with his partner and from what Ive seen...the child is normal, she is Happy and they are a happy family....so WTF is the problem?
I say....leave people alone, MYOB, let gay couples be married and live their lives in peace.
Gay Marriage hurts no one.
Maximu§
3/11 ACR
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 11:37:46am |
REPUBLICAN SENATOR ACCUSED OF DEFECATING IN PUBLIC SEX ROOM!
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zmdavid Thu, May 15, 2008 11:37:51am |
re: #143 song_and_dance_man
Well, at least they won't be able to procreate.
That's what embryonic stem cell research is for.
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MigueldowninMexico Thu, May 15, 2008 11:37:52am |
re: #130 zombie
Actually, the reason that's not going to happen is not any moral opposition to man-animal marriage, but because the animal is not able to "give consent." So, it'll never happen -- unless someone tries to marry one of those chimps who know sign language.
That's not an argument. In many different "cultures", even today, women are never asked their consent. Or children.
You're thinking in Western terms.
But other "cultures" can see things in a very different light.
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Jimmy The Clam Thu, May 15, 2008 11:38:04am |
I thought this was settled back in 2000, but I guess it doesn't matter what 61% of the California voters wanted.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:38:09am |
re: #141 Cygnus
I had to get away from it for a while because I was at work and uncontrollable laughter was threatening to break out.
Works gets in the way of a lot of stuff.
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Cygnus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:38:43am |
re: #147 Peacekeeper
REPUBLICAN SENATOR ACCUSED OF DEFECATING IN PUBLIC SEX ROOM!
Linky please!
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joncelli Thu, May 15, 2008 11:38:54am |
re: #126 JamesTKirk
Full faith and credit. If a gay marriage must be recognized in California, it must be recognized in PA. I would be willing to accept some kind of legal arrangement short of marriage, but accepting gay relationships as marriage diminishes the true purpose of the institution, which is to domesticate men and promote child rearing.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:39:17am |
re: #136 Widow'smight
I seriously doubt Gays and Lesbians will flock to ? to get married, and I doubt the piece of paper will change their habits. The problem here is that it is framed that marriage is a "Right", and it is not. You give up rights when you get married. Marriage is an obligation.
Regardless of whether you call it a "right" or an "obligation", neither term explains why it's a disaster if gay people do it.
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 11:39:22am |
re: #152 Cygnus
Sorry, I'm channeling the future, 2012 or so...
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:39:31am |
re: #152 Cygnus
Linky please!
It is funny joke, tovarisch. (And rerun, too... tovarisch PK, must have new material to fight moose & squirrel)
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:39:52am |
re: #153 joncelli
Full faith and credit. If a gay marriage must be recognized in California, it must be recognized in PA. I would be willing to accept some kind of legal arrangement short of marriage, but accepting gay relationships as marriage diminishes the true purpose of the institution, which is to domesticate men and promote child rearing.
WTF?
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wolfie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:40:00am |
re: #100 Occasional Reader
I am sorta kinda with you... EXCEPT for the glaring judicial activism aspect to the whole thing. Go back and read what lawhawk posted about the Mass. court; "our decision cannot be undone, even by constitutional amendment, so there!" Very disturbing.
BINGO. The really important question, IMO, is how these decisions are made. The Illuminati impose their vision of righteousness on the unwashed masses, regardless of law, procedure, and the Common Law tradition.....all of which they have (ahem!) deconstructed. Not even the College of Cardinals nor the Pope are so dictatorial.
Legal positivism= the law means whatever we say it does.
Vox judicium vox Dei= The voice of judges is the voice of God.
Bow down to your new priests.
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Cygnus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:40:21am |
re: #155 Peacekeeper
Sorry, I'm channeling the future, 2012 or so...
Can you give me some winning lottery numbers then?
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:40:28am |
re: #144 Sol Roth
Unless a super majority of homosexual unions adopt and raise children, this can be nothing more that the furtherance of Marxism (nuclear family destruction). Legal instruments already exist that allow homosexuals to transfer property and appoint power of attorney for health care; the biggest arguments for this favoring of a minority population at the expense of ALL our freedoms.
Feh.
I fail to see how this affects my marriage or freedom in any way.
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sventopia Thu, May 15, 2008 11:40:50am |
Wow! So let me get this straight (pun intended): Gay folks should pay the same taxes but shouldn't get all the benefits of government-issued marriages because allowing such would ... umm ... instantly transform us into non-bathing Euro-trash hippies and take The Price Is Right reruns off the air forever?
Would it, perhaps, make you doomsayers feel less arrogant and justifiable in your false sense of superiority? The law doesn't force churches and private orgs to marry the homosexuals... just the government whom they all pay taxes too. It seems like it's just plain fair to me.
Otherwise, we'll need to institute a "homosexual exemption" from all fed, state and local taxes to compensate them for paying into a marriage system that they are banned from participating in.
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WrathofG-d Thu, May 15, 2008 11:41:09am |
re: #139 Occasional Reader
NOt to get into a long drawn out discussion about the purpose of the Federal government as (although I'd love the discussiON) I don't have the time.
Short answer NO.
The Fed would still authority over Multi State Military issues and certain issues of national security.
Anyway, if you want to know how it would actually work, read the constitition.
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:41:21am |
re: #162 JamesTKirk
It affects the society in which you live.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:41:25am |
re: #153 joncelli
Full faith and credit. If a gay marriage must be recognized in California, it must be recognized in PA. I would be willing to accept some kind of legal arrangement short of marriage, but accepting gay relationships as marriage diminishes the true purpose of the institution, which is to domesticate men and promote child rearing.
My marriage is undiminished.
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Iron Fist Thu, May 15, 2008 11:41:56am |
re: #139 Occasional Reader,
FF&C has never applied to concealed carry permits. Why should it apply to Gay Marriage? States that don't recognize gay marriage don't recognize gay marriage.
Seems pretty simple to me.
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MigueldowninMexico Thu, May 15, 2008 11:42:03am |
This is a completely gramscian move.
Funny to see how many lizards don't get it.
Another step in "deconstructing" our Western civilization.
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sngnsgt Thu, May 15, 2008 11:42:11am |
If John Doe & Jack Doe get married in CA, is it recognized by other states as a legal marriage?
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:42:28am |
re: #91 JamesTKirk
Exactly. Doesn't change my marriage in any way, shape, or form.
Besides, marriage is much healthier than random sex in bathhouses with thousands of strangers. And I'd rather see people at gay pride marches flashes their wedding rings than ... well, what they're flashing now.
EXACTLY.
Actually, the truth is this: there will be a big flurry of about 5,000 gay couples getting married at first, with much media coveragde and fanfare...and then gay marriages will slow to a tiny trickle or only a few every month.
I know a LOT of gay people. (In fact, probably the majority of people I know are gay.) And I can't think of a single one that would have the slightest interest in getting married.
The whole thing is just one of those "prove a point" issues. Like flag-burning. Across America every day, how many people burn an American flag every week? One? Two? Totally unimportant. And yet it became a huge "free speech" issue. Same applies to gay marriage. A few will get married, and no one will really notice or care.
And the world keeps turning.
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WrathofG-d Thu, May 15, 2008 11:42:30am |
re: #142 unreconstructed rebel
Its like when a politician states that he is against Terrorism, indoctrination, imperialism, and the murder of civilians....
and CAIR screams Islamophobia.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:42:31am |
re: #163 sventopia
to compensate them for paying into a marriage system
Gay people helped pay for my marriage? Then where the hell is my rebate?
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 11:43:10am |
re: #140 The Pulchritudinous Patriot
Actually, I blame Superman, and all because his big head stopped working at the thought of Lois Lane.
My Little head stops working at the thought of Margot Kidder
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 11:43:12am |
re: #162 JamesTKirk
I fail to see how this affects my marriage or freedom in any way.
The only thing affecting my freedom here is the court disenfranchising my vote on a ballot initiative.
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cblesz Thu, May 15, 2008 11:43:16am |
re: #119 WrathofG-d
I live in the Los Angeles area. (born and raised)
There are those of us that would disagree with the uber Leftistness of California, but that is the State we live in.
No offense meant.
I know...was just kidding. Actually, I was born and raised in the other leftist joke = Mass. Moved to Los Angeles, met my wife and am raising my family here. I agree, CA is a joke, but not ALL of it.
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zmdavid Thu, May 15, 2008 11:43:32am |
re: #163 sventopia
1. It's not a law, it's a court decision.
2. How do you know it doesn't force Churches to marry gay couples?
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:43:43am |
re: #165 BuddyG
It affects the society in which you live.
The society in which I live already includes many same-sex couples known to me personally who are living in long-term relationships, raising children, and so forth without leading to a crisis of biblical proportions. Then again, I have also seen cats and dogs living together...
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marge45b Thu, May 15, 2008 11:43:48am |
I can see it now the Catholic Church will be sued for discrimination when it refuses to perform "Same-Sex" Church Weddings.
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MigueldowninMexico Thu, May 15, 2008 11:44:00am |
Got to go have lunch.
Laters, lizards :)
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:44:05am |
re: #164 WrathofG-d
Anyway, if you want to know how it would actually work, read the constitition
I've read the Constitution, thank you very much. The one that has that, you know, full faith & credit clause (Article IV, Section 1). Which the framers of the Constitution included, for damn good reasons.
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Iron Fist Thu, May 15, 2008 11:44:12am |
re: #150 Jimmy The Clam,
Democracy is much to important to be trusted to the voters.
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redheadredstate Thu, May 15, 2008 11:44:17am |
# 166
The fact is that a majority of the California electorate voted that this not go forward and this decision negates that. If for no other reason (and I have many others) this shouldn't stand.
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NoSubmission Thu, May 15, 2008 11:44:31am |
re: #136 Widow'smight
I seriously doubt Gays and Lesbians will flock to ? to get married, and I doubt the piece of paper will change their habits. The problem here is that it is framed that marriage is a "Right", and it is not. You give up rights when you get married. Marriage is an obligation.
Not all gay people are promiscuous. I know many who are surprisngly rather conservative Republicans and in long term monogamous relationships.
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Macker Thu, May 15, 2008 11:44:31am |
What gay marriage hath wrought, the IRS will still not recognize said couples as married. Link
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CyanSnowHawk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:45:12am |
re: #35 Occasional Reader
The Court could rule that a proposed amendment to the Constitution is unconstitutional?!
If I am looking at this correctly, the initiative in the pipeline now (1.1 million signatures submitted, subject to verification, requires about 695,000), Proposition 22, will be an amendment to the CA State Constitution that will define marriage as a union of one Man and one Woman. That could not be ruled unconstitutional at the State level, and I am pretty certain that the US Constitution is mum on the issue of marriage.
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formercorpsman Thu, May 15, 2008 11:45:20am |
re: #51 Nevergiveup
You hit the nail on the head.
Legal precedent like this will lead to outright mandating of socialistic onslaught.
Seriously, how could an argument stand on merit, or for that matter, a moral argument, that would prevent polygamists, or people involved in other social structures from petitioning for recognition as well?
Could you imagine the retort being that is does not follow norms?
Take away any religious or moral component to the argument. Imagine the windfall that will follow this domino. Public benefits, state insurance regulators, the list is endless.
Moreover, when put to the vote of the people, the court has decided to step and become the legislative branch it was never elected to be.
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cblesz Thu, May 15, 2008 11:45:20am |
re: #182 redheadredstate
# 166
The fact is that a majority of the California electorate voted that this not go forward and this decision negates that. If for no other reason (and I have many others) this shouldn't stand.
Exactly...the MAJORITY of Californians are not nutso...
OK...a large amount are...but the majority are still sane.
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Ceemack Thu, May 15, 2008 11:45:26am |
re: #84 WrathofG-d
Gee, it's fun listening to people who've clearly never lived here talking about what us silly Californians are like.
In case you haven't been reading carefully, we the voters have passed several ballot measures--like no social services to illegal aliens, no racial preferences, and no marriage except between one man and one woman--that most people in the other 56 states would call "conservative".
Unfortunately, we've got an activist Supreme Court that sees fit to overturn the will of the people, seemingly at a whim.
I'm unsettled by the idea of men marrying men and women marrying women. It's like brother marrying sister...it's just wrong.
But I'm even more unsettled to see that my vote apparently doesn't county.
I've lived here all my life, but it may be time to take another look at moving out of state.
Perhaps the constitutional amendment will make it to the November ballot and then carry another majority.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:45:29am |
re: #163 sventopia
Would it, perhaps, make you doomsayers feel less arrogant and justifiable in your false sense of superiority?
Ah, honest debate! So refreshing.
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The Pulchritudinous Patriot Thu, May 15, 2008 11:45:43am |
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 11:45:46am |
re: #183 NoSubmission
Not all gay people are promiscuous. I know many who are surprisngly rather conservative Republicans and in long term monogamous relationships.
and none of them are named Larry Craig
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:45:50am |
re: #174 Sharmuta
The only thing affecting my freedom here is the court disenfranchising my vote on a ballot initiative.
I agree with the "judicial activism" issue; it's the people in hysterics over gay marriage that dismay me.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:46:00am |
re: #176 zmdavid
1. It's not a law, it's a court decision.
2. How do you know it doesn't force Churches to marry gay couples?
Ummmmm...it IS a law. Case law carries the same weight as statutory law.
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incanus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:46:28am |
re: #176 zmdavid
1. It's not a law, it's a court decision.
2. How do you know it doesn't force Churches to marry gay couples?
Or that it won't? I'm sure churches would never be accused of intolerance and hauled before a Thought Crimes court because they opted to not marry a gay couple.
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MigueldowninMexico Thu, May 15, 2008 11:46:49am |
re: #182 redheadredstate
# 166
The fact is that a majority of the California electorate voted that this not go forward and this decision negates that. If for no other reason (and I have many others) this shouldn't stand.
It's already happening in Europe.
The Gramsci Nazis at work.
*POOF*
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jemima Thu, May 15, 2008 11:46:52am |
I used to live in a town where a guy would break into a barn to rape a little girl's pony.
I guess it's okay if he really really wanted to do it. Who are we to judge etc.
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 11:46:53am |
( Los Angeles) A young married couple from San Francisco were shocked and dismayed entering the LAX rest area. TV 5's NewsNow team interviewed the victims:
"Well, Brian and I were just getting heated up, we wanted a quickie before boarding the New York flight when suddenly there was this sound from the next stall, and he asked asked me 'Mike do you smell something?'
OMG! It smelled horrible! "What's happening?" I screamed and Brian just held his breath and ran for the door. It was terrible.
We don't have anything against heteros but they need to be considerate and take care of things like that at home, before coming out into an airport.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:46:54am |
re: #186 CyanSnowHawk
I was referring to lawhawk's note upthread of the position taken by the Mass. court (not this one), that their decision was immune to constitutional amendment. Shocking judicial arrogance, and flatly undemocratic.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:46:59am |
#110 karmic_inquisitorre: #78 zombie
For some reason, even though I live at the epicenter of the gay
marriage movement, this issue leaves me completely unmoved, one way or
the other. To me, it's an unimportant side-issue affecting very few
people that has been blown way out of proportion by both sides, on
purpose.If forced to take a stand, I'd have to come donw on
the laissez-faire side of things: Marry whoever (or whatever) you want
to marry. What's it got to do with me?While I agree with you on the issue itself (I am basically libertarian), what about the state constitution itself?
The court just said that it can declare any ammendment to the state constitution as unconstitutional.
That translates into "the constitution is whatever we want it to be."
I have a HUGE problem with that.
Oh, I agree. The judicial activism is distasteful. But the underlying topic (gay marriage) just makes me shrug.
I have a feeling a lot of pundits and so forth expressing outrage over this are simply using the judicial-activism aspect to mask their true feelings (i.e. revulsion at the thought of gay marriage).
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karmic_inquisitor Thu, May 15, 2008 11:47:01am |
re: #142 unreconstructed rebel
OT, but
Obama Takes Issue With Bush Foreign Policy Speech
A bit touchy there, ain't we, Barry? Well, if the shoe fits ...
Obama's reaction deserves attack and ridicule.
1) Obama was not mentioned ONCE in Bush's remarks.
2) The context of the remarks was a speech to a foreign legislative body outlining why the US will support Israel should she take military action against terror states - again, nothing to do with Obama
3) The fact that Obama is touchy about it shows -
a) very poor foreign policy judgment - should Obama's policies be undermined in such a way if he should ever make a speech to a foreign legislature?
b) an incapacity to unite the country - what exactly was controversial about what Bush said? Is Obama going to unite the country with such a line of attack?
4) "Methinks he doth protest too much" sums up Obama's objections when it comes to the appeasement crtiticisim.
Obama should be getting hit with both barells today - but he isn't. Blind media.
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The Pulchritudinous Patriot Thu, May 15, 2008 11:47:11am |
re: #159 MandyManners
WTF?
Single men are like bears with furniture.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:47:22am |
re: #176 zmdavid
1. It's not a law, it's a court decision.
2. How do you know it doesn't force Churches to marry gay couples?
For the same reason churches already can't be forced to perform marriages. I defy you to tell a Catholic priest, Jewish rabbi, or muslim imam to marry you if neither you nor your spouse are members of that religion or subscribe to any of its tenets.
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rawmuse Thu, May 15, 2008 11:48:15am |
There are already gay churches and gay weddings in SF, and have been for decades. This is more about spouse's rights, such as being able to get on your spouse's health insurance, visiting them in the hospital, etc.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:48:16am |
re: #163 sventopia
Wow! So let me get this straight (pun intended): Gay folks should pay the same taxes but shouldn't get all the benefits of government-issued marriages because allowing such would ... umm ... instantly transform us into non-bathing Euro-trash hippies and take The Price Is Right reruns off the air forever?
Would it, perhaps, make you doomsayers feel less arrogant and justifiable in your false sense of superiority? The law doesn't force churches and private orgs to marry the homosexuals... just the government whom they all pay taxes too. It seems like it's just plain fair to me.
Otherwise, we'll need to institute a "homosexual exemption" from all fed, state and local taxes to compensate them for paying into a marriage system that they are banned from participating in.
That's next.
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LeftJustAintRight Thu, May 15, 2008 11:48:31am |
The FUN will start when the divorces start
LOL
Now the courts will decide who is the man when alimony payments are requested by both partners
LOL
I just have one thing to say to all the gay people
Careful what you wish / Cause you may just get it
LOL
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:48:49am |
re: #177 JamesTKirk
The society in which I live already includes many same-sex couples known to me personally who are living in long-term relationships, raising children, and so forth without leading to a crisis of biblical proportions. Then again, I have also seen cats and dogs living together...
Why do same sex couples need to be legally married?
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 11:48:57am |
re: #190 Ceemack
I agree that your vote should count but if the voters approved a ballot initiative that banned surgery on the elderly or something else that violated the constitution, then that would be overturned ( rightly )
So on that account, I can see where a court can overturn the will of the voter and that is a good thing.
That's why amending the State constitution is really the only way any more to make any decision fool proof
Until the 9th circuit court overturns that state court and the state amendment for violation of the US constitution.......
I'm getting a migraine
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:49:06am |
re: #203 The Pulchritudinous Patriot
Single men are like bears with furniture.
Ha!
(of course you mean "bears" not in the Andy Sullivan sense... but that brings us back to the thread topic)
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bulwrk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:49:08am |
I'm sure the happiest people of all are the divorce lawyers.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:49:23am |
re: #203 The Pulchritudinous Patriot
Single men are like bears with furniture.
So are some single women.
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joncelli Thu, May 15, 2008 11:49:33am |
re: #159 MandyManners
Yeah, that kind of sounds weird. Let me fall back and explain. I don't want the state in the marriage business; I want all marriages to be private contracts. Gays could get married, polygamous marriages would be okay, etc. In general, it's none of my business what consenting adults do, and more power to them if they want to sanctify their union with a contract or a religious observance.
BUT (and you saw that coming) what I meant with the "domesticate men" statement was that the institution of marriage ties men legally and culturally to the home, to protecting women, and to raising and protecting children. Men are naturally anarchic; marriage is society's way of directing their wild energy to positive ends. The state has an interest in that. When marriage wanes, men direct their energies into negative pursuits. Gay marriage is a means of gaining the legal benefits of marriage without satisfying all of its cultural outcomes; it may or may not domesticate men, but it most certainly doesn't protect women and promote child rearing. And I probably just finished digging myself a deep, deep hole, so I'll just pretend to work now.
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Widow'smight Thu, May 15, 2008 11:49:50am |
re: #154 JamesTKirk
I didn't say it was a disaster, I said it wasn't a right, nor is it even mentioned in our Constitution. And, according to our Constitution, it should be left up to the LEGISLATURE of each State.
My problem is that some of the same people pushing so hard for Gay Marriage are also pushing for lowering the Age of consent to 10 or 12. In that case, the child would no longer be protected from gay/straight predators, but would have to face defense lawyers and such. Unless they were kids in my family, the SOB would have a private Pre-trial hearing, then an opportunity to check out the nearest healthcare facility.
I'm sure most Gay folks don't think that way, but lacking is the reporting on the supporters of this movement, and their real intent.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:49:52am |
re: #205 rawmuse
There are already gay churches and gay weddings in SF, and have been for decades. This is more about spouse's rights, such as being able to get on your spouse's health insurance, visiting them in the hospital, etc.
Those are already legal.
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Killgore Trout Thu, May 15, 2008 11:50:03am |
re: #154 JamesTKirk
Exactly how are gays going to ruin the institution of marriage. Haven't heteros already done that?
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:50:05am |
re: #208 BuddyG
Why do same sex couples need to be legally married?
Why shouldn't they? And if they want to, why are you telling them they can't?
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 11:50:35am |
re: #194 JamesTKirk
I agree with the "judicial activism" issue; it's the people in hysterics over gay marriage that dismay me.
I hold to the view we're all equal in the eyes of the Law.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:50:43am |
re: #211 bulwrk
I'm sure the happiest people of all are the divorce lawyers.
And, china shops!
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wolfie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:50:44am |
re: #162 JamesTKirk
I fail to see how this affects my marriage or freedom in any way.
A handful of sanctimonious judges imposing their views on you without regard for law, procedure, democracy, or political custom affects your freedom. You may like or dislike or be neutral about the substance of their decision, but you'd better worry about the way they made it.
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rawmuse Thu, May 15, 2008 11:50:46am |
re: #203 The Pulchritudinous Patriot
Single men are like bears with furniture.
Some men, yes. I know some guys where you would have to go in to their living rooms with a fire hose in order to find the front door. Intelligent life forms develop in their refrigerators and are now petitioning congress for their own district. It can be bad.
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lawhawk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:50:56am |
re: #86 Occasional Reader
The Mass court had given the legislature 180 days to come up with a definition allowing gays to wed, and that only full, equal marriage rights would be constitutional.
They basically threatened to overturn anything that didn't meet their definition.
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incanus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:50:58am |
re: #201 zombie
Oh, I agree. The judicial activism is distasteful. But the underlying topic (gay marriage) just makes me shrug.
I have a feeling a lot of pundits and so forth expressing outrage over this are simply using the judicial-activism aspect to mask their true feelings (i.e. revulsion at the thought of gay marriage).
Come now, you're better than that. "[group] is opposing this not because of the points they have raised but because they are [racist]" (where "racist" means "in opposition to some identity group"). This is a fallacious argument.
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Athos Thu, May 15, 2008 11:51:03am |
re: #187 rawmuse
Supreme Court, here we come.
Not from this case. Only recourse is the likely constitutional amendment proposition expected on the November ballot. If that passes, it trumps the creative interpretation of the CA Supreme Court for a “fundamental constitutional right to form a family relationship.”
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:51:07am |
All you screamers who can't stand the idea that gay sex is happening ought to support gay marriage.
After all, nothing kills sex faster than getting married, right?
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incanus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:51:43am |
re: #204 JamesTKirk
For the same reason churches already can't be forced to perform marriages. I defy you to tell a Catholic priest, Jewish rabbi, or muslim imam to marry you if neither you nor your spouse are members of that religion or subscribe to any of its tenets.
Wait a few years.
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unreconstructed rebel Thu, May 15, 2008 11:51:50am |
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:52:17am |
re: #220 wolfie
A handful of sanctimonious judges imposing their views on you without regard for law, procedure, democracy, or political custom affects your freedom. You may like or dislike or be neutral about the substance of their decision, but you'd better worry about the way they made it.
They're not imposing their views on me. They're imposing their views on the less than 1% of the population who are (a) gay and (b) want to get married.
I'm already married. This changes nothing for me.
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 11:52:23am |
re: #219 MandyManners
re: #211 bulwrk
I'm sure the happiest people of all are the divorce lawyers.
And, china shops!
LMAO!
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rawmuse Thu, May 15, 2008 11:52:25am |
re: #225 JamesTKirk
Just the Good Sex. But, sometimes the old sneakers feel pretty good.
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antishock8 Thu, May 15, 2008 11:52:29am |
Cool. I don't see why anyone would discriminate against homosexual Americans. There's no rational basis. It's all religious. Long live democracy and equality.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:52:31am |
re: #213 joncelli
Yeah, that kind of sounds weird. Let me fall back and explain. I don't want the state in the marriage business; I want all marriages to be private contracts. Gays could get married, polygamous marriages would be okay, etc. In general, it's none of my business what consenting adults do, and more power to them if they want to sanctify their union with a contract or a religious observance.
BUT (and you saw that coming) what I meant with the "domesticate men" statement was that the institution of marriage ties men legally and culturally to the home, to protecting women, and to raising and protecting children. Men are naturally anarchic; marriage is society's way of directing their wild energy to positive ends. The state has an interest in that. When marriage wanes, men direct their energies into negative pursuits. Gay marriage is a means of gaining the legal benefits of marriage without satisfying all of its cultural outcomes; it may or may not domesticate men, but it most certainly doesn't protect women and promote child rearing. And I probably just finished digging myself a deep, deep hole, so I'll just pretend to work now.
It does the same to women.
Oh, and I don't need a man to protect me. I've a Desert Eagle and a good aim.
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 11:52:37am |
re: #224 Athos
Not from this case. Only recourse is the likely constitutional amendment proposition expected on the November ballot. If that passes, it trumps the creative interpretation of the CA Supreme Court for a “fundamental constitutional right to form a family relationship.”
then somebody will sue them in federal court.
Can the federal court then ban the state constitutional amendment for violation of some federal protection?
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Killgore Trout Thu, May 15, 2008 11:53:12am |
re: #226 song_and_dance_man
Exactly. Churches are free to ignore gay marriages but at the same time they can't force the state to ignore them too.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:53:14am |
re: #114 Occasional Reader
I don't really think the Folsom Street crowd were just waiting all along for a legal justification to settle down into stable, monogamous marriages, and join the PTA. But that's just me.
Exactly. Truth be told -- and believe me, I'm no fire-and-brimstone conservative, but a San Francisco laissez-faire liberal -- but my personal observations of people's lifestyles pretty much confirms the stereotypes, that gay men are fairly promiscuous (at least around these parts), and marriage is about the last thing on their minds. Casual multiple sexual partners seems pretty much standard behavior.
Which, actually, is also perfectly fine by me. Again: i am opposed to nanny-state-ism telling people what to do in their personal lives. I guess you'd call that a libertarian streak. Want to make love to a park bench and then stage a wedding ceremony with it, presided over by a taxidermed aardvark? Be my guest.
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:53:15am |
re: #217 JamesTKirk
Why shouldn't they? And if they want to, why are you telling them they can't?
Because (as someone mentioned earlier on this thead) it's another attack on the nuclear family. It erodes tradition. And if same-sex couples are permitted to legally marry, then where do you draw the line?
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LeftJustAintRight Thu, May 15, 2008 11:53:18am |
re: #225 JamesTKirk
After all, nothing kills sex faster than getting married, right?
Reminds me of a joke
The only cure for a nymphomaniac is wedding cake
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:53:27am |
re: #214 Widow'smight
I didn't say it was a disaster, I said it wasn't a right, nor is it even mentioned in our Constitution. And, according to our Constitution, it should be left up to the LEGISLATURE of each State.
My problem is that some of the same people pushing so hard for Gay Marriage are also pushing for lowering the Age of consent to 10 or 12. In that case, the child would no longer be protected from gay/straight predators, but would have to face defense lawyers and such. Unless they were kids in my family, the SOB would have a private Pre-trial hearing, then an opportunity to check out the nearest healthcare facility.
I'm sure most Gay folks don't think that way, but lacking is the reporting on the supporters of this movement, and their real intent.
Homosexuality is NOT THE SAME AS PEDOPHILIA.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:53:47am |
re: #225 JamesTKirk
All you screamers who can't stand the idea that gay sex is happening
I think you're being a little... "reductivist", I believe is the word, in your characterization of those who disagree with you.
(Me, on the substantive question, I have mixed feelings, but generally support the idea that gays should be able to have what I'll still call "civil unions" (since I think the M-word just confuses the whole issue, really); at the same time, I am troubled by possible long-term cultural effects.)
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incanus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:53:47am |
re: #235 Shug
then somebody will sue them in federal court.
Can the federal court then ban the state constitutional amendment for violation of some federal protection?
Of course; the Federal Government is all powerful and trumps all. At least they're there to take care of us and guide us along the path to true enlightenment.
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unrealizedviewpoint Thu, May 15, 2008 11:53:49am |
re: #165 BuddyG
It affects the society in which you live.
How does gay marriage effect the society you and I live in?
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:53:53am |
re: #226 song_and_dance_man
Gays can get married in the eyes of the State, but they will never be married in the eyes of God.
You're free to hold that belief, but the state's not in the business of determining God's intent in any case. Besides, it's "til death do we part" for all of us... None of us will be married on Judgement Day when we meet the Dude.
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Kulhwch Thu, May 15, 2008 11:54:06am |
re: #117 JamesTKirk
re: #101 BuddyG"random sex in bathhouses with thousands of strangers"Do you really think that would stop if gays could be legally married?
No, any more than every single straight person is monogamous due to the availability of straight marriage.
Excellent answer, and undoubtedly true ...
}:) [But prepare to duck ... ]
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Widow'smight Thu, May 15, 2008 11:54:22am |
re: #183 NoSubmission
Never said they were! I just don't think that you'll have that many Gay couples willing to give up their rights just to prove a point.
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sngnsgt Thu, May 15, 2008 11:54:50am |
re: #239 LeftJustAintRight
Reminds me of a joke
The only cure for a nymphomaniac is wedding cake
LOL!
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snowcrash Thu, May 15, 2008 11:54:51am |
I have no problems with homosexuality or homosexuals in a committed relationships. I only fear that legalizing gay marriage will encourage the normalizing of alternate lifestyle teaching in the early elementary school setting. I would not want my daughter coming home from the 2nd grade with a book called "King and King", a homosexual love story book for kids. This happened in Lexington MA in 2006, I think. I regret that gay marriage cannot be kept separate from a political agenda.
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The Pulchritudinous Patriot Thu, May 15, 2008 11:54:55am |
re: #221 rawmuse
Some men, yes. I know some guys where you would have to go in to their living rooms with a fire hose in order to find the front door. Intelligent life forms develop in their refrigerators and are now petitioning congress for their own district. It can be bad.
My ex-husband had an incredible collection of empty Pert shampoo bottles under his bathroom vanity and along the edge of his bathtub before I married him.
I can't even begin to describe the sheer hugeness of his emply toilet paper roll collection, I still tremble when I think of it.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:55:12am |
re: #238 BuddyG
Because (as someone mentioned earlier on this thead) it's another attack on the nuclear family. It erodes tradition.
So, you were fine with the tradition of white people and black people being prohibited from marrying?
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CyanSnowHawk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:55:27am |
re: #89 stead63
thats just around the corner I fully agree. What about a man and a horse? I mean the gate's standing wide open
Um, why is one of the first arguments against gay marriage almost always bestiality? That seems to me to be a rather big leap.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:55:46am |
re: #240 MandyManners
Homosexuality is NOT THE SAME AS PEDOPHILIA.
Consenting human adults. Big difference.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:55:46am |
re: #120 MandyManners
Homosexuals don't do that?
No, they do it too -- it's just that the masturbate-a-thon organizers are mostly straights.
Actually, what they are are media whores, who will do anything to get attention. The sexual counterparts of Code Pink. Personally I wish no one would give any attention their stupid stunts, because they're just attention vampires and they're feeding off your gawking and shock.
They are boring old creeps.
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 11:55:47am |
re: #237 zombie
Want to make love to a park bench
Ah, no, you lost me on that point right there. That's public behavior, and the state has a legitimate interest.
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 11:55:54am |
re: #248 snowcrash
I regret that gay marriage cannot be kept separate from a political agenda.
But how else can the democrats pander to homosexuals?!
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:56:16am |
re: #235 Shug
then somebody will sue them in federal court.
Can the federal court then ban the state constitutional amendment for violation of some federal protection?
I'm dizzy.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:56:31am |
re: #243 unrealizedviewpoint
How does gay marriage effect the society you and I live in?
More musicals, apparently. Hey, I liked "Chicago", so bring 'em on!
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 11:56:42am |
Want to make love to a park bench and then stage a wedding ceremony with it, presided over by a taxidermed aardvark? Be my guest.
What if I want to walk down the street without my toddler seeing two leather clad freaks caulking socks? Do I have a right?
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 11:56:43am |
re: #250 JamesTKirk
I'm fine with a man & a woman having children and creating a family.
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WrathofG-d Thu, May 15, 2008 11:56:56am |
re: #190 Ceemack
I live in CA but was unaware that we have passed any ballots against Same-Sex marriage.
One would be surprised to find that we have a Conservative state when we continue to vote in the same leftist idiots.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 11:57:19am |
re: #236 Killgore Trout
Exactly. Churches are free to ignore gay marriages but at the same time they can't force the state to ignore them too.
What about the photographer who's in hot water for refusing to photograph a homosexual wedding?
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sventopia Thu, May 15, 2008 11:57:49am |
re: #172 Occasional Reader
Gay people helped pay for my marriage? Then where the hell is my rebate?
re: #176 zmdavid
2. How do you know it doesn't force Churches to marry gay couples?
Separation of church and state. Besides, gay marriage is old news in Massachusetts, a state even bluer than Cali, and churches can still marry (and not marry) whomever they want there. Example: the Roman Catholics don't believe in inter-faith marriages, but inter-faith marriages are recognized by the govt. So, does that force the RC church to marriage a Catholic and a Hindu? Absolutely not. Same concept applies here.
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incanus Thu, May 15, 2008 11:57:56am |
re: #258 Peacekeeper
Want to make love to a park bench and then stage a wedding ceremony with it, presided over by a taxidermed aardvark? Be my guest.
What if I want to walk down the street without my toddler seeing two leather clad freaks caulking socks? Do I have a right?
No, you're a Luddite. Report to Cattle Car #343 at &30 am next Tuesday. no need to pack.
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 11:58:03am |
And for Pete's sake- the men here whining about marriage...
Did she hold a gun to your head literally? Glad I'm not your wife, guys.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:58:15am |
re: #258 Peacekeeper
Want to make love to a park bench and then stage a wedding ceremony with it, presided over by a taxidermed aardvark? Be my guest.
What if I want to walk down the street without my toddler seeing two leather clad freaks caulking socks? Do I have a right?
Public sex is illegal regardless of the genders and orientations involved.
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 11:58:42am |
re: #266 JamesTKirk
Public sex is illegal regardless of the genders and orientations involved.
and whether or not the couple is married
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 11:59:05am |
re: #259 BuddyG
I'm fine with a man & a woman having children and creating a family.
I know personally gay parents who are a hell of lot better at it than Britney and K-Fed.
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Kragar (Proud to be Kafir) Thu, May 15, 2008 11:59:18am |
re: #84 WrathofG-d
What is the big deal exactly? The people of California are extreme leftists who would support the privilege of Homosexuals to "marry" eachother, and the Government passed a bill saying such.
This is a State's rights issue, and has been decided upon by this State.
This IS California we are talking about.
The point is that the "extreme leftists" of California, of whom I am one of apparently, voted by a large margin to ban such marriages by a constitutional ammendment. This amendment was just overturned by the courts. Note that homosexual marriage is still illegal, it just can't be banned at this point.
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Widow'smight Thu, May 15, 2008 11:59:19am |
re: #240 MandyManners
I think you read that post wrong. Some of the folks behind this movement are trying to lower the age of consent, I said some, not all.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 11:59:51am |
re: #147 Peacekeeper
REPUBLICAN SENATOR ACCUSED OF DEFECATING IN PUBLIC SEX ROOM!
Hilarious!
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:00:14pm |
re: #268 song_and_dance_man
I guess the Founding Fathers had it all wrong.
Only if you're saying that gays aren't allowed the same life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness that the rest of us have.
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LeftJustAintRight Thu, May 15, 2008 12:00:27pm |
This thread will be as good as the ID threads
LOL
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Sol Roth Thu, May 15, 2008 12:00:43pm |
re: #162 JamesTKirk
I fail to see how this affects my marriage or freedom in any way.
IMHO, the re-definition of marriage to include non-reproducing homosexuals dilutes its original intent; to provide a stable, monogamous mating of a heterosexual pair for the production of offspring that have the maximum fitness to survive and pass on that fitness to the next generation.
Unless this is the intent of homosexual marriage proponents, and what I have read it is not, then you have a dilution of a practice that has served to stabilize societies for thousands of years. It may indeed be a slippery slope to weaken and ultimately destroy the nuclear family which, if we take the out-of-wedlock black birthrate as an example, wholly unhealthy to society. Destruction of the nuclear family is a stated goal of Marxism. You can read their propaganda here: [Link: www.fifthinternational.org...] This is where I see threats to my marriage and freedom.
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zmdavid Thu, May 15, 2008 12:01:01pm |
re: #262 sventopia
If the law means whatever some judge says, there are no gaurantees of anything.
Minor quibble - The Roman Catholic Church recognizes interfaith marriage if they agree that any children will be raised Catholic.
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Killgore Trout Thu, May 15, 2008 12:01:03pm |
re: #261 MandyManners
What about the photographer who's in hot water for refusing to photograph a homosexual wedding?
That's a tricky issue. It gets complicated; Imagine if the photographer refused service to blacks? Or a muslim photographer refusing service to Jews? What if it was a gay photographer refusing to service heteros?
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 12:01:09pm |
re: #269 JamesTKirk
Gay people are fine. Gay marriage is not fine.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 12:01:24pm |
re: #257 JamesTKirk
More musicals, apparently. Hey, I liked "Chicago", so bring 'em on!
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Athos Thu, May 15, 2008 12:01:30pm |
re: #201 zombie
My issue is with the use of the term 'marriage' in addition to the process. I can't find in the CA Constitution a “fundamental constitutional right to form a family relationship” that was denied by the inability to get a marriage license / certificate.
I'm fine with domestic partnerships legally entered and legally binding. That includes the need to legally dissolve failed partnerships and making economic restitutions if warranted.
I'm also fine with states via the legislature / voters deciding to extend benefits and stature previously denied to same-sex couples if they are legally entered and legally binding. This ultimately is a states rights issue and should not extend to the other states under the full faith clause.
However, to me, I do not see sexual preference as a foundation for a right or the need to redefine marriage to include this type of union. Just as some express bewilderment over the opposition to gay marriage, I in turn express bewilderment over the pressure for its acceptance if not to achieve a political goal - particularly since CA has a very strong domestic partnership law that few conservatives have an issue with.
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LeftJustAintRight Thu, May 15, 2008 12:01:38pm |
I bet Charles has the Ban Stick ready
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 12:01:46pm |
So are heterosexual couples that don't want any or can't have any children still allowed to marry?
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Occasional Reader Thu, May 15, 2008 12:02:00pm |
re: #265 buzzsawmonkey
It is absurd to contend that homosexual couples do not have property which needs safeguarding
That's actually my hidden agenda; my gay neighbors have really nice stuff. Why can't I just take it?
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:02:05pm |
re: #276 Sol Roth
IMHO, the re-definition of marriage to include non-reproducing homosexuals dilutes its original intent; to provide a stable, monogamous mating of a heterosexual pair for the production of offspring that have the maximum fitness to survive and pass on that fitness to the next generation.
I know many married couples who have no children, nor plan to have any. Are you going to rule their marriages invalid? Is childbearing to be a legal requirement for married couples?
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 12:02:15pm |
re: #264 Sharmuta
And for Pete's sake- the men here whining about marriage...
Did she hold a gun to your head literally? Glad I'm not your wife, guys.
Dinged ya' up!
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Kulhwch Thu, May 15, 2008 12:02:19pm |
re: #136 Widow'smight
re: #91 JamesTKirkI seriously doubt Gays and Lesbians will flock to ? to get married, and I doubt the piece of paper will change their habits. The problem here is that it is framed that marriage is a "Right", and it is not. You give up rights when you get married. Marriage is an obligation.
Ooo, ooo, soooo close ... I think you almost had the right word* there. I know at times my marriage seemed kinda like an obligation, or perhaps a greatly-inflated karmic payback for something I did very wrong in a past life. Oh, sorry, I live in California, we speak that way ... heh ...
* Other, better words, might include: choice, option, duty, entitlement, lifestyle, priviledge, booby-trap, mire, time-bomb, fantasy, etc.
}:) [Hmm ... marriage as obligation ... hmm ... to who?]
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:02:45pm |
re: #277 zmdavid
If the law means whatever some judge says, there are no gaurantees of anything.
Minor quibble - The Roman Catholic Church recognizes interfaith marriage if they agree that any children will be raised Catholic.
IOW, churches are free, and continue to be free, to set their own standards for marriage recognition.
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unreconstructed rebel Thu, May 15, 2008 12:02:58pm |
re: #282 LeftJustAintRight
Does this constitute entrapment? After all, Charles brought the subject up. :)
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karmic_inquisitor Thu, May 15, 2008 12:03:01pm |
re: #201 zombie
I have a feeling a lot of pundits and so forth expressing outrage over
this are simply using the judicial-activism aspect to mask their true
feelings (i.e. revulsion at the thought of gay marriage).
While that is probably true in many cases, I see those people as having a right to object to gay marriage in the first place.
Marriage is a contract, and states have the right (and obligation) to make clear what kinds of contracts are legal and which one's aren't.
At issue (from a state's interests stand point) in Gay marriage are the rights that one gets when part of a marriage contract - taxation treatment, estate and property issues, custodial issues over children, medical issues and whatnot. Within that, there are real issues to be addressed that the state has a keen interest in.
I could not care one bit about who is sleeping with whom and how long they want to maintain that relationship. But we have a body of law going back sometime that has made assumptions about what a marriage consists of and we ought to be deliberate in weeding through the implications of a full recognition of marriage to same sex couples.
Were it my issue to deal with, I would remove the word "marriage" from law and use another term. The institution of "marriage" was first given "force" by religious authorities long before states started regulating it (with blood tests, marriage licenses and whatnot). Then it would be up to religions to declare people "married" and it would be up to society to "recognize" a marriage, whereas the legal institution would simply be a state designation recognizing a type of contract that gives the parties to the contract certain rights.
As it sits now in Claifornia by this ruling, all of the aspects of marriage as a social institution have been confered on same sex couples as a civil right. So anyone denying that civil right for social recognition and acceptance (not just legal) can find themselves hauled into either a civil or criminal court for having violated those people's civil rights.
It will be interesting to see which church is sued first for not conducting a full marriage ceremony for a same sex couple that demands such as a civil right.
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The Pulchritudinous Patriot Thu, May 15, 2008 12:03:01pm |
re: #244 JamesTKirk
You're free to hold that belief, but the state's not in the business of determining God's intent in any case. Besides, it's "til death do we part" for all of us... None of us will be married on Judgement Day when we meet the Dude.
Righto....this is why there is and should be the seperation of Church and State in the Constitution.
I don't care if there are civil unions between same sex couples if that is what each state decides. If a particular religious denomination decides to not marry same sex couples in the church, then fine.
If, however there were ever any legislation forcing a religious body or bodies to conduct marriage ceremonies, then I'd have a problem simply because the State was imposing it power on the Church and that would be unconstitutional.
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Creeping Eruption Thu, May 15, 2008 12:03:03pm |
I wonder who here has had the time to read and digest the 172 page decision? Not me. I will reserve judgment until then. It sucks seeing normally erudite Lizards spouting off sound bites. I'll sit back now, take my down-dings, and wait for a new thread.
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opnion Thu, May 15, 2008 12:03:10pm |
re: #18 Honorary Yooper
Since when did the courts get to make the law? I thought that Californians had made their choice known by a referendum?
The courts can always find a constitutional right even where it does not exist.
Look at Roe V Wade. They took it away from the states & the theory was silly.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 12:03:32pm |
re: #278 Killgore Trout
That's a tricky issue. It gets complicated; Imagine if the photographer refused service to blacks? Or a muslim photographer refusing service to Jews? What if it was a gay photographer refusing to service heteros?
Some would say that being homosexual is a choice whereas race is not.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:03:43pm |
re: #279 BuddyG
Gay people are fine. Gay marriage is not fine.
And yet no one can give a clear answer (screaming "tradition" or "communism" is not a clear answer) on why that second sentence is the case.
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 12:03:46pm |
re: #286 MandyManners
Dinged ya' up!
When did you turn you ratings on?
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vagabond trader Thu, May 15, 2008 12:03:51pm |
A gay male friend, who has no interest in marrying , told me that gays deserve to have the same right to be miserable as any straight couple.lol.
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Athos Thu, May 15, 2008 12:04:55pm |
re: #235 Shug
From my understanding, there is no federal grounds at this point for the SCOTUS to take the case or appeal. If there were a Federal law or Constitutional Amendment, then SCOTUS would have the option to hear it.
I don't think the Feds can step in and rule a State Constitutional amendment unconstitutional under the US Constitution since it's a state constitutional issue and independent of the Fed.
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Killgore Trout Thu, May 15, 2008 12:05:01pm |
re: #281 Athos
particularly since CA has a very strong domestic partnership law that few conservatives have an issue with.
From the hot air article....;
Yes, (some) conservatives seem to be saying, gays can go ahead and have civil unions that grant them all the benefits married couples have — but for god’s sake, don’t let them call themselves “married.” To which a court can only reply, “Why not?” The right’s strategy, in other words, has been to concede 99 yards and then stand on the one-yard line and say “no further,” but that’s not how discrimination jurisprudence works. If you’re going to discriminate you need a good reason, and depending upon whom you’re discriminating against, you may need a very, very good reason.
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 12:05:34pm |
re: #295 JamesTKirk
If same-sex marriage is allowed, where would you then draw the line?
And what are your reasons for that boundary?
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Maximu§ Thu, May 15, 2008 12:06:00pm |
OMG...Gay Marriage is legal?
Our whole world is coming to an end.....we're finshed! Our whole society is going to fold like a Chinese lawn chair! Lock up the kids!
s/
Seriously, you people need to calm down. Gays are an extreme minority and their getting marrried hurts no one. I expect at least 4-5 negetive mark downs from the Zealots in here for this comment, but thats Ok, I can take it.
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karmic_inquisitor Thu, May 15, 2008 12:06:04pm |
re: #204 JamesTKirk
For
the same reason churches already can't be forced to perform marriages.
I defy you to tell a Catholic priest, Jewish rabbi, or muslim imam to
marry you if neither you nor your spouse are members of that religion
or subscribe to any of its tenets.
This decision changes that - marriage is now a civil right. One's standing in society is damaged when one is not recognized as "married" because of one's sexual preference.
A priest CANNOT refuse to mary a black parishoner to a white parishoner if either would be allowed to marry someone of their same race.
This is now a civil right, and has to be viewed under the same tests.
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 12:06:06pm |
re: #298 song_and_dance_man
I'm not saying that. It was to illustrate that our nation was founded on the principle and acknowledgment of a Creator in refutation to your suggestion that the state's not in the business of determining God's intent.
But the State's NOT in the business of religion! It's in the First Amendment!
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Da_Beerfreak Thu, May 15, 2008 12:06:23pm |
re: #12 Occasional Reader
The big question: "Full faith & credit"?
That's why an amendment to the U.S. Constitution will be the only way to stop this madness.
// {:-(™
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unrealizedviewpoint Thu, May 15, 2008 12:06:27pm |
re: #276 Sol Roth
IMHO, the re-definition of marriage to include non-reproducing homosexuals dilutes its original intent; to provide a stable, monogamous mating of a heterosexual pair for the production of offspring that have the maximum fitness to survive and pass on that fitness to the next generation.
Unless this is the intent of homosexual marriage proponents, and what I have read it is not, then you have a dilution of a practice that has served to stabilize societies for thousands of years. It may indeed be a slippery slope to weaken and ultimately destroy the nuclear family which, if we take the out-of-wedlock black birthrate as an example, wholly unhealthy to society. Destruction of the nuclear family is a stated goal of Marxism. You can read their propaganda here: [Link: www.fifthinternational.org...] This is where I see threats to my marriage and freedom.
So a small percentage of folks, 1% of the 6% of the American population want to wed, and it's considered a threat. Gimme a break.
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Roger Thu, May 15, 2008 12:06:37pm |
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Intrepid Thu, May 15, 2008 12:06:46pm |
re: #176 zmdavid
1. It's not a law, it's a court decision.
2. How do you know it doesn't force Churches to marry gay couples?
Your second point is, IIRC, Tammy Bruce's objection to legalizing gay marriage. Her concern was that this would begin a process of obligating priests/pastors, who have a religious belief against it, to perform ceremonies that are against their religious beliefs. Therefore a huge issue between church/state separation.
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Sol Roth Thu, May 15, 2008 12:06:46pm |
re: #237 zombie
Which, actually, is also perfectly fine by me. Again: i am opposed to nanny-state-ism telling people what to do in their personal lives. I guess you'd call that a libertarian streak. Want to make love to a park bench and then stage a wedding ceremony with it, presided over by a taxidermed aardvark? Be my guest.
LOL!
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 12:06:55pm |
re: #303 MandyManners
Good deal, Mandy. Welcome to the fabulous world of Dings!
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lawhawk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:07:37pm |
re: #235 Shug
then somebody will sue them in federal court.
Can the federal court then ban the state constitutional amendment for violation of some federal protection?
The case was decided on State Constitutional grounds, so the case ends with the Cal. Supreme Court - they're the final arbiters of California law.
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NoSubmission Thu, May 15, 2008 12:07:38pm |
re: #304 Maximu§
OMG...Gay Marriage is legal?Our whole world is coming to an end.....we're finshed! Our whole society is going to fold like a Chinese lawn chair! Lock up the kids!
s/
Seriously, you people need to calm down. Gays are an extreme minority and their getting marrried hurts no one. I expect at least 4-5 negetive mark downs from the Zealots in here for this comment, but thats Ok, I can take it.
If I had my ratings turned on, I'd ding you up.
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sventopia Thu, May 15, 2008 12:07:57pm |
re: #172 Occasional Reader
Gay people helped pay for my marriage? Then where the hell is my rebate?
When you think of all the legal fees they have to spend preparing the hundreds of contracts that automagically come along with a legal marriage, not to mention all the other marriage related bennies -- you bet they pay. Gay folks have to file taxes separately, cannot usually rely on their partner for health insurance, survivor benefits, immigration stuff, and on and on.
But regardless, gays entering into a legal contract like marriage doesn't deny anyone else's right to do the same, so I just don't think it's anything to get worked up over.
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joncelli Thu, May 15, 2008 12:08:03pm |
re: #304 Maximu§
I dinged you up just to be cantankerous. ;-)
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unrealizedviewpoint Thu, May 15, 2008 12:08:41pm |
re: #304 Maximu%uFFFD
OMG...Gay Marriage is legal?
Our whole world is coming to an end.....we're finshed! Our whole society is going to fold like a Chinese lawn chair! Lock up the kids!
s/
Seriously, you people need to calm down. Gays are an extreme minority and their getting marrried hurts no one. I expect at least 4-5 negetive mark downs from the Zealots in here for this comment, but thats Ok, I can take it.
Zealots. Maximu again hits nail squarely.
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Killgore Trout Thu, May 15, 2008 12:08:44pm |
re: #294 MandyManners
Some would say that being homosexual is a choice whereas race is not.
That's a pretty loaded argument but it's not a choice for many/most gays. It simply isn't. Attempts at curing homosexuality don't work and are often psychologically damaging to the "patients". If gay sex really was a choice why would so many pastors, priests, and conservative politicians ruin their lives, careers, and families by pursuing gay sex. Gay sex must be really fantastic because people take great risks and pay high prices to get it.
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 12:08:49pm |
re: #313 lawhawk
The case was decided on State Constitutional grounds, so the case ends with the Cal. Supreme Court - they're the final arbiters of California law.
thanks. I was just wondering at what point the federal court could overturn the state court.
Like what if the people of california amended the california constitution to deny voting rights to black people or women?
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newsjunkie_ky Thu, May 15, 2008 12:09:04pm |
re: #266 JamesTKirk
Seem to remember seeing pictures of public sex in SF on zombie's site. Don't think they were arrested.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 12:09:33pm |
re: #198 jemima
I used to live in a town where a guy would break into a barn to rape a little girl's pony.
I guess it's okay if he really really wanted to do it. Who are we to judge etc.
What are you talking about? Gay marriage is the same as bestiality rape?
Weird.
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ArmyWife Thu, May 15, 2008 12:09:42pm |
re: #306 Sharmuta
No, the first amendment states there will not be a Government imposed religion - a la the Anglican church in England, nor will you be punished for practicing whatever religion you follow. It never said there would be no reference to religion ever, ever. The "wall of separation" is a fallacy and made up by....you guessed it...COURTS.
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Squirrelguy Thu, May 15, 2008 12:09:42pm |
re: #12 Occasional Reader
The big question: "Full faith & credit"?
Then my concealed handgun license should work in Kali.
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Dianna Thu, May 15, 2008 12:09:50pm |
This thread is moving really fast, and I'm working, so I just wish to say that ignoring the voters is not what judges are for. And, while I do not have a dog in the gay marriage fight, I feel that this is something that gays need to persuade married people about. This isn't going to help, at all.
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vagabond trader Thu, May 15, 2008 12:09:55pm |
re: #276 Sol Roth
Oh please, my straight spouse and I are already being punished with higher taxes because we failed to produce offspring. Should our legal marriage also be dissolved?
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opnion Thu, May 15, 2008 12:09:55pm |
Alright, someone had to ask. How do you decide which one gets to soften the window treatments?
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 12:10:08pm |
re: #302 buzzsawmonkey
Would you be okay with legal polygamy; A multi-partner marriage?
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wolfie Thu, May 15, 2008 12:10:19pm |
re: #277 zmdavid
If the law means whatever some judge says, there are no gaurantees of anything.
Minor quibble - The Roman Catholic Church recognizes interfaith marriage if they agree that any children will be raised Catholic.
Indeed.
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Ojoe Thu, May 15, 2008 12:10:22pm |
1. This stuff makes dreadful politics.
2. Gay "M---" is not the same thing, don't use the same word.
3. Language is not meant to obscure but to clarify.
4. God loves everyone.
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 12:10:38pm |
re: #321 zombie
What are you talking about? Gay marriage is the same as bestiality rape?
Accounts Differ...
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:10:45pm |
re: #301 BuddyG
If same-sex marriage is allowed, where would you then draw the line?
And what are your reasons for that boundary?
Consenting adults.
Children cannot consent. Animals cannot consent.
No one has demonstrated to me any valid reason why they have any business telling other adults who they can and cannot marry. I don't care if they're from different races (It was as recently as 1967 when Loving vs. Virginia struck down the laws against mixed-race marriages!), different religions (long, bloody history there; which still continues with muslims and their honor killings), or the same sex...
They are consenting adults and it's their business, not yours, what they do.
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OldLineTexan Thu, May 15, 2008 12:10:50pm |
re: #278 Killgore Trout
That's a tricky issue. It gets complicated; Imagine if the photographer refused service to blacks? Or a muslim photographer refusing service to Jews? What if it was a gay photographer refusing to service heteros?
If I have a business without public facilities* (such as many wedding photographers), what business is it of the Government whether or not I am a bigot, or just uncomfortable in certain settings? What right then does this photographer have to refuse to take pornographic pictures, if I as a customer demand them?
To take it further, if the Gov't starts telling this photographer who he will accept as a customer, will the same Gov't tell his customers which photographer to choose? There's an LDS Temple down the street...were I a photographer, I could not work in that Temple because I am not Mormon and do not hold a Temple recommend. Does the photographer have rights in that case that trump the rights of the Mormons to preserve the sanctity of their Temple?
*the public facilities question has LONG been settled
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sventopia Thu, May 15, 2008 12:10:51pm |
re: #277 zmdavid
Minor quibble - The Roman Catholic Church recognizes interfaith marriage if they agree that any children will be raised Catholic.
Quibble taken... all the Catholics are know are also the most anti-Catholic people I know, so my sources regarding RC theology probably aren't the most reliable.
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 12:11:00pm |
re: #318 Killgore Trout
That's a pretty loaded argument but it's not a choice for many/most gays. It simply isn't. Attempts at curing homosexuality don't work and are often psychologically damaging to the "patients". If gay sex really was a choice why would so many pastors, priests, and conservative politicians ruin their lives, careers, and families by pursuing gay sex. Gay sex must be really fantastic because people take great risks and pay high prices to get it.
But, for those who believe it IS a choice, and a sinful one at that, it would be forcing them to violate their own religious beliefs. Is the next step forcing a church to perform the ceremony?
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 12:11:12pm |
re: #319 Shug
thanks. I was just wondering at what point the federal court could overturn the state court.
Like what if the people of california amended the california constitution to deny voting rights to black people or women?
Yeah- we should end women's suffrage- those women are suffering!
/Old Tom Green joke
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unreconstructed rebel Thu, May 15, 2008 12:11:17pm |
re: #309 Roger
Time was when queer as an adjective & queer as a noun meant different things, but I got your meaning.
But, in the above context queer is to gentle a word. Vicious anti-american traitors suits me better.
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karmic_inquisitor Thu, May 15, 2008 12:11:21pm |
re: #292 Creeping Eruption
I wonder who here has had the time to read and digest the 172 page
decision? Not me. I will reserve judgment until then. It sucks seeing
normally erudite Lizards spouting off sound bites. I'll sit back now,
take my down-dings, and wait for a new thread.
Page 7.
We therefore conclude that in view of the substance and significance of the fundamental constitutional right to form a family relationship, the California Constitution properly must be interpreted to guarantee this basic civil right to all Californians, whether gay or heterosexual, and to same-sex couples as well as to opposite-sex couples.
Marriage is a now civil right.
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nyc redneck Thu, May 15, 2008 12:11:25pm |
re: #183 NoSubmission
Not all gay people are promiscuous. I know many who are surprisngly rather conservative Republicans and in long term monogamous relationships.
i know several gay couples (both male and female) who have been together for yrs. also. at least 3 couples have adopted children and are good parents. my gay male friends are conservative business owners. they adopted their daughter when she was born to a woman who had no way of caring for her. she is 12 now and such a sweet kid. and somehow, she looks just like both of her dads. they are good solid people and caring parents. ( i jokingly ask them to adopt me, sometimes.)
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Peter Griffin Thu, May 15, 2008 12:11:40pm |
Maybe the whole country should allow gay marraiges from Memorial to Labor Day to see if all of those FABULOUS weddings will stimulate the economy?
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Squirrelguy Thu, May 15, 2008 12:11:41pm |
Let them get married. Let be be as unhappy as I was. Let them give up half of everything they own when they want out.
Equality can be a bitch.
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 12:11:54pm |
Congrats Charles this has all the earmarks of careening into a FOAD thread.
Talk about boldly going...
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:12:09pm |
re: #305 karmic_inquisitor
This decision changes that - marriage is now a civil right. One's standing in society is damaged when one is not recognized as "married" because of one's sexual preference.
A priest CANNOT refuse to mary a black parishoner to a white parishoner if either would be allowed to marry someone of their same race.
This is now a civil right, and has to be viewed under the same tests.
Marriage is a civil right for Jews, yet priests ARE most certainly allowed to refuse to marry Jews within a Catholic church. Getting married is a right. Getting married by a priest is not and never was.
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Squirrelguy Thu, May 15, 2008 12:12:31pm |
re: #327 BuddyG
Would you be okay with legal polygamy; A multi-partner marriage?
Geez, I don't want one. Why in the hell would I want more?
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 12:12:37pm |
re: #332 JamesTKirk
You'd be okay with multiple consenting adults all getting legally married to eachother as a group ?
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zmloh Thu, May 15, 2008 12:12:54pm |
Well, goodbye California it was so nice to know YA!
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:13:19pm |
re: #320 newsjunkie_ky
Seem to remember seeing pictures of public sex in SF on zombie's site. Don't think they were arrested.
And how will gay marriage change that, if they're already having public sex in SF?
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opnion Thu, May 15, 2008 12:13:27pm |
i am just saying that throwing beastiality in here seems like such bigotry against Islam. Ya know it"s a cultural thing.
Ok a stretch
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 12:13:33pm |
re: #340 Peter Griffin
Maybe the whole country should allow gay marraiges from Memorial to Labor Day to see if all of those FABULOUS weddings will stimulate the economy?
Just don't put registry information in with the wedding invitations.
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unrealizedviewpoint Thu, May 15, 2008 12:13:37pm |
re: #198 jemima
I used to live in a town where a guy would break into a barn to rape a little girl's pony.
I guess it's okay if he really really wanted to do it. Who are we to judge etc.
re: #321 zombie
What are you talking about? Gay marriage is the same as bestiality rape?
Weird.
Like I said before, there should be some test administered somewhere between hatching and delousing prior to granting posting privileges.
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The Pulchritudinous Patriot Thu, May 15, 2008 12:13:43pm |
re: #310 Intrepid
Your second point is, IIRC, Tammy Bruce's objection to legalizing gay marriage. Her concern was that this would begin a process of obligating priests/pastors, who have a religious belief against it, to perform ceremonies that are against their religious beliefs. Therefore a huge issue between church/state separation.
But this is why we have the Supreme Court. It's also why it takes 3/4s of the states to ratify any changes to the Constitution. Any law that orders priests/rabbis etc to perform the "religious" aspect of the marriage contract would get challenged immediately.
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 12:14:05pm |
re: #322 ArmyWife
No, the first amendment states there will not be a Government imposed religion - a la the Anglican church in England, nor will you be punished for practicing whatever religion you follow. It never said there would be no reference to religion ever, ever. The "wall of separation" is a fallacy and made up by....you guessed it...COURTS.
I know that- but legally- the courts and the government are not in the business to decide God's intent, which was Song & Dance Man's argument.
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 12:14:16pm |
re: #329 Ojoe
1. This stuff makes dreadful politics.
2. Gay "M---" is not the same thing, don't use the same word.
3. Language is not meant to obscure but to clarify.
4. God loves everyone.
Does God love Hitler?*
* Which is a rhetorical point and I do not think that gays are hated by God. Some people yes, not gays as a class.
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Widow'smight Thu, May 15, 2008 12:14:23pm |
re: #287 Kulhwch
Well around here, some folks speak PA Dutchified, Vunst.
I have a financial obligation to my Wife and Children, a Moral Obligation to them, and an Obligation to protect them.
BTW, THIS wife is a real blessing to me and our kids. I can speak honestly about Marriage being an obligation cause I went through a real ugly divorce.
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Intrepid Thu, May 15, 2008 12:14:38pm |
re: #253 zombie
Hey Zombie - what's the strangest parade/protest/?-a-thon you've seen/photo'd in SF?
Just wonderin', since there's such a myriad of choices....
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Roger Thu, May 15, 2008 12:14:44pm |
re: #329 Ojoe
4. God loves everyone.
He does think some folks are idiots for carving something out of wood, stone or polycarbonate and then worshiping it.
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freetoken Thu, May 15, 2008 12:14:52pm |
re: #144 Sol Roth
If I read the link Charles posted correctly, it is this approach (that you advocate) that got the decision rendered as it was. Namely, that having given up so many "yards", so to speak, the court simply found that to not go all the way was fundamentally wrong, according to California constitution and law.
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CyanSnowHawk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:15:00pm |
re: #178 marge45b
I can see it now the Catholic Church will be sued for discrimination when it refuses to perform "Same-Sex" Church Weddings.
Do you mean the same way that the Catholic Church is constantly being sued in order to allow women to become priests?
/Separation of Church and State works both ways
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NoSubmission Thu, May 15, 2008 12:15:00pm |
re: #353 experiencedtraveller
I would marry buzzsawmonkey.
/c'mon you know what I mean!
I {heart} buzzsawmonkey! I get first dibs..
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Ojoe Thu, May 15, 2008 12:15:06pm |
This is something that should never be in the arena of public policy, one way or another.
I do not think it was a wise idea to bring it t here in the first place.
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kynna Thu, May 15, 2008 12:15:14pm |
I've got friends in a civil union so I'm not bashing the idea of gay marriage. I haven't totally made up my mind, actually.
But IIRC the voters made this ban as per the state constitution. I agree with posters who hope this kind of judicial meddling will energize the voters to put more conservatives (ie Federalists) in office. Someone has to be thinking about 'by the people, for the people'. If they can overturn this voter realized action then they could turn over anything the voters have decided on. Including keeping Islam out of our classrooms and banning sex ed in 2nd grade.
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JamesTKirk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:15:29pm |
re: #342 Peacekeeper
Congrats Charles this has all the earmarks of careening into a FOAD thread.
Talk about boldly going...
Hey! Leave my catchphrase out of this!
/ gotta be going anyway...
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 12:15:45pm |
re: #350 MandyManners
Just don't put registry information in with the wedding invitations.
LMAO! It's soooo uncouth.
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joncelli Thu, May 15, 2008 12:15:54pm |
So the solution is pretty clear: take marriage out of the ambit of the state. Make all marriage contractual. Marry three guys and woman, if you want. Just don't get government involved, with its implications of societal acceptance.
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karmic_inquisitor Thu, May 15, 2008 12:16:17pm |
re: #343 JamesTKirk
Marriage
is a civil right for Jews, yet priests ARE most certainly allowed to
refuse to marry Jews within a Catholic church. Getting married is a
right. Getting married by a priest is not and never was.
The example I laid out was among parishoners of the said church. The case law on such is huge.
Again - civil right.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 12:16:32pm |
re: #214 Widow'smight
My problem is that some of the same people pushing so hard for Gay Marriage are also pushing for lowering the Age of consent to 10 or 12. In that case, the child would no longer be protected from gay/straight predators, but would have to face defense lawyers and such.
Link for that?
Oh sorry, there isn't one. Just another ridiculous slander.
99% of the activists seeking to lower the age of consent are straight. Many, in fact, are members of fringe religious sects who want girls to be able to marry at 13 with no parental veto power.
Strange how these social issue debates bring out the real rifts in the lizard community. We agree on so many other things.
Just as with the other divisive issues around here, things break down along theological lines, with Team Secular facing off against Team Religious.
I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree.
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Honorary Yooper Thu, May 15, 2008 12:16:49pm |
re: #228 incanus
Wait a few years.
They already can't be told to perform the marriage. For example, a Catholic church will not perform a marriage if the previous marriage has not been annulled within the church. This stands even with a civil divorce.
Now a justice of the peace on the other hand...
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OldLineTexan Thu, May 15, 2008 12:16:51pm |
re: #314 NoSubmission
If I had my ratings turned on, I'd ding you up.
I wouldn't because I have yet to see the hyperventilating that some people are hyperventilating about. But that's just me.
/and BEFORE you kick me, I don't give a rat's ass. Both sides are half-right. Good luck with that. The judicial activism is real and a serious threat, but hey, that just makes me a bigot with a hidden agenda.
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restitutor orbis Thu, May 15, 2008 12:16:59pm |
Oh jeez. I bet Savage popped a blood vessel. Maybe this will give him something new to talk about rather than the lefty talking points he's been spewing lately (Corporations!.... Big Oil!...... Bush greatest disaster to befall the country!....... Who's pulling his strings?............... Puppetmasters!)
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average_guy Thu, May 15, 2008 12:17:00pm |
More details here.
Apparently there will be a gay marriage ban on the ballot in November 2008 in The Golden State, although this could be subsequently overturned in the courts as well. Of course, any marriages performed between now and then would be legal, at least I presume so. I wonder if the ballot initiative will drive conservative voter turnout this November in California? Interesting...
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freetoken Thu, May 15, 2008 12:17:06pm |
re: #176 zmdavid
On #2 - for the same reason that TODAY churches are NOT forced to marry anyone that simply wants to be...
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Ojoe Thu, May 15, 2008 12:17:10pm |
re: #338 karmic_inquisitor
WTF it is a fundamental constitutional right?
Where does that come from?
This whole area is a spiritual area and the state should keep its nose out of it.
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 12:17:15pm |
re: #364 JamesTKirk
You screwed that male/female thing from Trek VI, but at least you didn't marry it.
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unreconstructed rebel Thu, May 15, 2008 12:17:21pm |
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 12:17:24pm |
re: #365 Sharmuta
LMAO! It's soooo uncouth.
Nothing like opening up those stiff double envelopes to have a bunch of business cards fall all over the counter.
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Peter Griffin Thu, May 15, 2008 12:17:28pm |
re: #350 MandyManners
Oh look honey, they are registered at The White Rabbit, The Gay Dolphin, and Crate & Barrel
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Athos Thu, May 15, 2008 12:17:59pm |
re: #300 Killgore Trout
What I think AP is missing is that 60.1% of the CA electorate defined marriage as between one man and one woman. If the Supreme Court is to overturn that vote then they need to have a specific right to that is being denied other than use of the term or the redefinition of the term to fit a “fundamental constitutional right to form a family relationship.”
Then there is the other argument twist of AP's position, that the burden of proof is on those same-sex persons to prove why it has to be called marriage and not a domestic partnership. Shouldn't that burden be on the group trying to influence change as opposed to the group holding the traditional definition (and the definition as defined by the electorate).
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sparrowlake Thu, May 15, 2008 12:18:30pm |
re: #295 JamesTKirk
And yet no one can give a clear answer (screaming "tradition" or "communism" is not a clear answer) on why that second sentence is the case.
Tradition beats Communism, though, ya gotta admit.
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maddogg Thu, May 15, 2008 12:18:35pm |
Just a matter of time til you can marry your dog.
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formercorpsman Thu, May 15, 2008 12:18:47pm |
re: #204 JamesTKirk
You have seen the story floating around about the guy who called the catholic hospital main number, asked if they did sex change operations, knew the answer would no, and now has a lawsuit.
To think somehow, the motivation behind this is to just live and let live, you are fooling yourself.
There is an effort by politically motivated people, subverting our constitutional process of a couple hundred years.
I don't like where this goes. Only because it never stops with equality. It is a barge to encroach upon people's free will if they so disagree with this lifestyle.
Think about some small business person who may decide to hire someone, or not based upon certain attributes they feel might have a negative impact for their success.
This type of thing has a major domino effect.
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Russkilitlover Thu, May 15, 2008 12:18:48pm |
re: #170 zombie
But it's a nice way to distract the masses from what's really important! Wouldn't want anyone turning away from monumental issues like gay marriage to contemplate oh, say, appeasing terrorists, nationalizing health care, or importing abject poverty.
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 12:19:05pm |
I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree.
Why ? Because you said so?
;)
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MandyManners Thu, May 15, 2008 12:19:15pm |
re: #379 Peter Griffin
Oh look honey, they are registered at The White Rabbit, The Gay Dolphin, and Crate & Barrel
Anyone who puts that into a wedding invitation guarantees I won't buy crap.
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MellyMel Thu, May 15, 2008 12:20:01pm |
re: #349 opnion
i am just saying that throwing beastiality in here seems like such bigotry against Islam. Ya know it"s a cultural thing.
Ok a stretch
LOL. I need that laugh -- thanks!
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CyanSnowHawk Thu, May 15, 2008 12:20:01pm |
re: #200 Occasional Reader
I was referring to lawhawk's note upthread of the position taken by the Mass. court (not this one), that their decision was immune to constitutional amendment. Shocking judicial arrogance, and flatly undemocratic.
Oh. That is shocking and arrogant, but I sort of expect that from Mass.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 12:20:05pm |
#223 incanus
re: #201 zombieOh, I agree. The judicial activism is distasteful. But the underlying topic (gay marriage) just makes me shrug.
I have a feeling a lot of pundits and so forth expressing outrage over this are simply using the judicial-activism aspect to mask their true feelings (i.e. revulsion at the thought of gay marriage).
Come now, you're better than that. "[group] is opposing this not because of the points they have raised but because they are [racist]" (where "racist" means "in opposition to some identity group"). This is a fallacious argument.
I stand by my statement: a lot of conservative pundits are just opposed to gay marriage in principle, but they'll use the "judicial activism" aspect of this story (which is a valid aspect) to make it seem like they have a different motivation.
People publicly misrepresenting their motives happens all the time.
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Squirrelguy Thu, May 15, 2008 12:20:08pm |
re: #379 Peter Griffin
Oh look honey, they are registered at The White Rabbit, The Gay Dolphin, and Crate & Barrel
The Blue Oyster Bar.
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Shug Thu, May 15, 2008 12:20:13pm |
re: #385 maddogg
Just a matter of time til you can marry your dog.
Why buy the dog when you can get the bone for free?
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JustMyView Thu, May 15, 2008 12:20:31pm |
re: #214 Widow'smight
My problem is that some of the same people pushing so hard for Gay Marriage are also pushing for lowering the Age of consent to 10 or 12. In that case, the child would no longer be protected from gay/straight predators, but would have to face defense lawyers and such. Unless they were kids in my family, the SOB would have a private Pre-trial hearing, then an opportunity to check out the nearest healthcare facility.
I'm sure most Gay folks don't think that way, but lacking is the reporting on the supporters of this movement, and their real intent.
The reporting must be really lacking. I've never heard of anyone pushing this idea. How did you happen to hear about it
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Sharmuta Thu, May 15, 2008 12:20:39pm |
Actually- I'd like to see more equity in divorce laws.
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opnion Thu, May 15, 2008 12:20:51pm |
re: #390 MellyMel
LOL. I need that laugh -- thanks!
My pleasure.
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Peacekeeper Thu, May 15, 2008 12:21:00pm |
re: #387 Russkilitlover
But it's a nice way to distract the masses from what's really important! Wouldn't want anyone turning away from monumental issues like gay marriage to contemplate oh, say, appeasing terrorists, nationalizing health care, or importing abject poverty.
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NoSubmission Thu, May 15, 2008 12:21:15pm |
re: #371 OldLineTexan
I don't want to kick anyone. We all have a right to express our points of view here.
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Ornery Potlicker Thu, May 15, 2008 12:21:17pm |
This will only make me more bitter and clingy.
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Creeping Eruption Thu, May 15, 2008 12:21:18pm |
re: #338 karmic_inquisitor
Marriage is a now civil right.
If that is the case, I don't have a problem with that. I have not read the full decision though to agree or disagree with your analysis.
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newsjunkie_ky Thu, May 15, 2008 12:21:28pm |
re: #348 JamesTKirk
Don't know what you are asking. I responded to this:
re: #258 Peacekeeper
Want to make love to a park bench and then stage a wedding ceremony with it, presided over by a taxidermed aardvark? Be my guest.
What if I want to walk down the street without my toddler seeing two leather clad freaks caulking socks? Do I have a right?
JamesTKirk said, "Public sex is illegal regardless of the genders and orientations involved."
Apparently it is not illegal in SF between gay men, according to zombie's pictures and her writings that police look the other way. If a straight couple were engaging in oral sex on a public street they would be arrested.
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Da_Beerfreak Thu, May 15, 2008 12:21:44pm |
re: #50 pat
When is the Court going to declare the Constitution unConstitutional?
FDR already did that before WWII IIRC.
We have FDR to thank for today's Ogliarchy.
(In case you missed the memo:
The Republic is dead.)
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Dianna Thu, May 15, 2008 12:22:04pm |
re: #366 joncelli
Then you're saying (sigh) that the state has no interest in marriage?
That position won't hold up, unfortunately, because of a bunch of statistics. The sad and sorry fact is that the state should be backing marriage to the hilt, because children do better in families with stable marriages; men behave better when married; both men and women do better, financially, physically and mentally when married; and it's better for the state for people to be married.
Sorry.
I'm just a secular person, who isn't married but living with someone of the other sex.
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ArmyWife Thu, May 15, 2008 12:22:13pm |
I am opposed to gay marriage. I am not opposed to gay relationships - I don't care much what happens in people's bedrooms so long as its not harming me or something innocent such as a child or animal.
What we need to remember is there IS a cost associated with this - health insurance premiums will go up, that being the biggest one. Is that enough to say we shouldn't do this? I am not sure, but we kid ourselves if we don't think this isn't a part of the debate. I also don't buy the "discrimination" argument. If gay people wanted to marry for the insurance benefits and whatever else, no one is stopping them - so long as they marry someone of the opposite sex.
The scary part of this particular issue (CA) is the way it came about. It flies in the face of necessary checks and balances - that should scare you whether you are gay, straight or undecided.
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Ward Cleaver Thu, May 15, 2008 12:22:19pm |
That should make the jihadis love California.
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Ojoe Thu, May 15, 2008 12:22:26pm |
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Killgore Trout Thu, May 15, 2008 12:22:29pm |
re: #335 MandyManners
But, for those who believe it IS a choice, and a sinful one at that, it would be forcing them to violate their own religious beliefs.
Yes, it does. To some extent if someone's religious beliefs are so rigid then they need to take responsibility and insulate themselves from the rest of society. Muslims who object to guide dogs, booze and pork should move to Saudi Arabia. America has no obligation to create a society that accommodates all religions without offense. People should take responsibility for their own sensitivities not expect the rest of society to accommodate them.
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NoSubmission Thu, May 15, 2008 12:22:33pm |
re: #385 maddogg
Just a matter of time til you can marry your dog.
As long as I can marry both my dogs... Polydoggie!
All kidding aside, my dogs are nicer than my last two husbands.
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Squirrelguy Thu, May 15, 2008 12:22:34pm |
re: #403 Ornery Potlicker
This will only make me more bitter and clingy.
Lock & load!
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Maximu§ Thu, May 15, 2008 12:23:12pm |
My Brother who is a born-again-Christian believes anyone outside of his little Church is going to Hell!...course, I think he is a f**king Idiot.
I have a real problem with Christians who think God only smiles on them and the rest of us regular folk are going to burn in the eternal fires of Hell.
If a Gay couple marries, raises children and are productive members of society.....who the F**K are we to judge them?
Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone....
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unreconstructed rebel Thu, May 15, 2008 12:23:23pm |
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Sol Roth Thu, May 15, 2008 12:23:25pm |
re: #285 JamesTKirk
I know many married couples who have no children, nor plan to have any. Are you going to rule their marriages invalid? Is childbearing to be a legal requirement for married couples?
Marriage of heterosexuals that are sterile, or who don't want children are no threat to the original purpose of marriage.
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Peter Griffin Thu, May 15, 2008 12:23:32pm |
I'm picturing 5 groomsmen - dressed as The Village People
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DownRightMeanAmerican Thu, May 15, 2008 12:23:40pm |
I wonder what the folks in River Bend-Dover NH are thinking?
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runrabbitrun Thu, May 15, 2008 12:23:59pm |
re: #285 JamesTKirk
I know many married couples who have no children, nor plan to have any. Are you going to rule their marriages invalid? Is childbearing to be a legal requirement for married couples?
No, not every hetero couple can have, or wish to have children - but only hetero couples may bring a child into existence, which was one of the original intents of marriage: to encourage couples which MAY produce children to take financial and physical responsibility for those children. Remember, if a homosexual couple seeks to ADOPT a child, they are investigated and declare their commitment to provide same to the child as a part of the investigation. Not so with heteros, which was a benefit to the culture of couples being married.
The legal normalization of homosexual marriage may affect adoptions, state/fed funding assistance of religious schools - they may all lose funding and not be able to exist if they teach that a homosexual lifestyle is contrary to their faith. It may affect foster care/adoptions by religious groups - which care for enormous numbers of at-risk kids - and there will be demands for equal representation of gay families in textbooks, primers, etc. (not to mention the shakedown of corporations to include gay families represented in movies, ad campaigns, and so on).
It will definitely change the culture - interesting.
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noraono Thu, May 15, 2008 12:24:03pm |
I went to the second "most gay" UC school after Berkeley- we were the first to have non-gendered bathrooms and had the largest LGBTQIA club in the system.
that said, I had a lot of gay friends. Nearly 100% of those had no interest in "marriage" as it stands- they considered marriage to be an institution for straight people. What they did want was a recognized civil union that gave them all the rights, privileges, and benefits of a married couple.
I'm all for civil unions and think gay couples should have every RIGHT of a straight couple- my only objection is to the naming. I believe marriage is a building block of families and should not apply to a same sex couple. But, that's just me being a zealot i guess.
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BuddyG Thu, May 15, 2008 12:24:03pm |
re: #384 buzzsawmonkey
You have not explained your objections to any--let alone all--of the points I raised in #265 above.
I will be interested to hear your answers--but until you provide them, I see no purpose to dignifying your attempts to introduce red herrings into the discussion.
I imagine that we both agree that legal marriage can't be anything goes.
My boundary is one man & one woman. What's yours?
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Squirrelguy Thu, May 15, 2008 12:24:04pm |
re: #411 Ward Cleaver
That should make the jihadis love California.
Only if they include camels & goats.
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Slumbering Behemoth Thu, May 15, 2008 12:24:12pm |
re: #128 WrathofG-d
I'd repeal the ff&C clause and go back to a states rights approach.
The only problem with that (if someone hasn't already beat me to this point) is that the clause also covers other things such as graduate degrees.
Remove that, and your AS, BA, Doctorate, and so on are now only valid in the state your earned them in.
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LeftJustAintRight Thu, May 15, 2008 12:24:14pm |
Who the he! cares what we think ?
What does Obama think
And
Wright
CAIR
Hillary
They are the voices that matter
Us Typical UnPigmented People do not even matter
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Ornery Potlicker Thu, May 15, 2008 12:24:20pm |
re: #332 JamesTKirk
If you looked into my dogs eyes when I walk through the door, you would see the embodiment of consent.
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zombie Thu, May 15, 2008 12:24:25pm |
re: #225 JamesTKirk
All you screamers who can't stand the idea that gay sex is happening ought to support gay marriage.
After all, nothing kills sex faster than getting married, right?
EXACTLY.
What is so heinous about gay marriage? If anything, it will only serve to DECREASE promiscuity in the gay community.
Or are people just opposed to gay sex in principle, and they're expressing their opposition to it by opposing gay marriage?
I started this thread being ambivalent about gay marriage, but the more I read, the less a problem I have with it.
Where are your laissez-faire principles, people? You don't want anyone telling you what you can and cannot do -- right? Why then tell others what they can and cannot do?
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Morganfrost Thu, May 15, 2008 12:24:47pm |
Please! Stop arguing! The Court has decided this is something (else) which must be removed from the purview of (what's left of) a democratic society. If you don't have a black robe, your opinion (and that of your elected representatives) on this matter is no longer of any consequence. There goes another piece of your democracy; don't worry-- it's for your own good.
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NoSubmission Thu, May 15, 2008 12:24:53pm |
re: #422 noraono
Non gender bathrooms? EW!
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Golem Akbar Thu, May 15, 2008 12:25:06pm |
re: #379 Peter Griffin
Oh look honey, they are registered at The White Rabbit, The Gay Dolphin, and Crate & Barrel
Now don't knock Crate and Barrel. I like their furniture. [not that there is anything wrong with Crate and Barrel]
