India: Being Comfortable in Your Own Skin (Tone)
This fretting over the tone of one’s complexion is depressing & frustrating, and it’s not limited to India or any particular religion. It exists—as far as I know—all across South Asia. I’ve seen advertisements for skin lighteners in African stores in NYC as well.
Maybe publicityStunted will see this Page and be kind enough to drop by and address the South Asian aspect because I’ve always had a really difficult time understanding it. And it’s not just women, it’s men too. I understand how the dynamic works here in the U.S. amongst blacks & hispanics, but our history is quite different, so…? Can there be racism when everyone is the same race? Is it bigotry? What do you even call it? Just simple prejudice?
I am Indian — but after more than 15 years of living abroad, some aspects of Indian life feel fresh, if not new or altogether welcome.
Three months ago, I wandered into a salon in Kolkata with my mother and came face-to-face with a prejudice I hadn’t had to deal with in all the years abroad.
The beautician insisted she could remove my ‘deep tan.’
But my dark skin was not the result of a tanning bed disaster – I was born with it.
Lady with pink talons and bright pink lipstick: I can lighten you up by several shades.
Me: No.
Lady: You are roaming in the sun too much.
Me: Don’t touch my face.
No one in India seems to think it unusual to try to slap some bleach, or a herbal equivalent, on my skin to reveal a whiter me. It is mildly irritating when it comes from my beloved aunts, and maddening when strangers suggest my dark skin is something to be ‘fixed.” […]