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Some thoughts on 'sex by surprise'

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Mad Prophet Ludwig12/07/2010 8:34:48 pm PST

re: #109 sizzleRI

I think I have been trying to find a way to say this. Women can be assholes as much as men. And men can manipulate anyway possible as much as women. Including sex. (And we’ll ignore for the moment that assholes and manipulators are present in the gay male and lesbian community as well. Funny that, seems like its human behavior and not just sexist heterosexual driven behavior.)

So of course this is true. And that comes back to my basic point.

There are fundamental words that we use for users, and gigolos and male prostitutes. Women are not offended by using these words to describe those scummy men.

I think they are reprehensible scum too and deserve the language. I like being accurate more than I like being diplomatic.

Yet women who indulge in the same behavior are exempt from the harsh criticism they deserve by using the equivalent words. I am not going to even whine about the double standard. I can see clearly that ignoring it will derail all of the real points I am trying to make.

Speaking for myself. I am offended by the women on Fox for indulging in obviously shallow manipulative behavior designed to sell me evil with the thought that I am so out of control of my man parts that such a thing will work.