Kudos CL for digging in and doing so much work.
Maybe I’m just being naive. Some things on the ‘net or it’s subcultures just confound me.
AFAIK it’s a crying shame this much time goes into what should be a minor issue of phrases for some very difficult and loaded, even extreme negative circumstances. Like rank bigotry circles.
Rosiee & those of a similar mindset owe you a couple hours of your life back.