re: #110 Obdicut

I am a shameless flirt. I don’t think it’s harmful. I use my wiles all the time.

Generally, women understand nothing more is meant by it. When they don’t, it can be handled gracefully.

There’s a big difference between happy flirting and devious manipulation; the latter person is normally a rather unhappy soul.

I’m also a flirt. So is my husband. Well, one can call it charm. He’s very charming.

I agree re the happy flirting/devious manipulation. Now if you’re out in a club trying to get laid, that would be BOTH men and women, you’re ok with the manipulation. That’s the game, after all. But as to someone who uses sex in their daily lives, I’ve dated plenty of men who have used their money, charm and all around ego to get into my pants when that was ALL they wanted to do.