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Scots voting no to independence would be an astonishing act of self-harm

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klys (maker of Silmarils)9/03/2014 6:12:33 pm PDT

re: #120 The War TARDIS

I don’t necessarily like being teased either, but my default response is not to lash out at the other person because of it.

If they’re doing it to be friendly, then I’m better off talking to them about it because it wasn’t meant to hurt and that should be taken into consideration in the response.

If they were doing it to be mean, then providing them with a response is exactly what they want.

You can’t dictate other people’s behavior and they’re not always going to fit into the neat box you might like them to be in.