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Some thoughts on 'sex by surprise'

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What, me worry?12/07/2010 8:45:31 pm PST

re: #113 LudwigVanQuixote

OK I will be honest. I have exactly the same emotional response you would to an unwanted advance. The women you are talking about are still not - as far as I have seen as provocative as the ones on Fox, but that is not the real root of my reaction.

If some skeezy guy is hitting on you, you hate it right?

He may even be really good looking, but he’s a creep so you really really don’t like his attentions right? You really don’t like him projecting his sexuality at you because it is nauseating right?

There are all sorts of nasty dehumanizing words women use for creeps like that too. And I don’t have a problem with it because I am not a guy like that. I think they are scum too. How friendly a word is scum BTW?

OK fine. So some woman who is a creep on Fox is projecting her sexuality at me while saying things which are utterly evil, things like not feeding the hungry or helping the poor. How do you think I feel about that?

About terminology. A lot of women have a visceral reaction to certain words because they are used pretty much exclusively to dehumanize a woman. And those words don’t have the same meaning if applied to a man at all. I don’t have that strong a reaction as Ice, but I can completely understand and agree with her.

Fox women are creepy, but not for their dress… or undress. I don’t put the two together.