re: #128 WindUpBird

I don’t know about women, but to be incredibly blunt, *I’ve* called it off mid-coitus because it wasn’t working, and this is with me on the receiving end. If it happens to me I’m sure it’s happened to many women. For whatever reason. You’re sick, you get dizzy, you get a cramp, you have to pee, the guy sid something gross or creepy, whatever.

Yeah ok, those are very good reasons.

When I said unless she has a good reason in the earlier post, I literally meant that.

Obviously, obviously if your partner is uncomfortable, you stop. In the context of that post, I thought it was given, it was presumed that everything was going great and then “out of the blue” she changes her mind. I meant that never happens.

Right, and this was after being really really clear that you stop period the nano second anyone say no for whatever reason.

I think one of the things I am learning from this thread is just how awful people are to each other and as a result how much is assumed and presumed to be implied when talking about certain things, because so many have had bad experiences or have friends who have had bad experiences.