re: #100 Dianna

re: #100 Dianna

I am absolutely aghast.

Do you actually know people who do that?

Now, granted, I’m sure as hell not going to march up to total strangers outside the four-square gospel church and ask them about their sex lives, but I do not believe I’ve ever heard anyone advocate the behavior you’re describing as typical.

You forget how many doctors are in my family and how many medical studies are out there.

The following are all stories that involve very far right religious people.

My brother had a couple come in. She complained that sex was painful, that she understood the pain was G-d punishment for being sinful, but as a Christian wife, she had a duty to serve her husband. However, it really did just hurt, and was there anything my brother could advise.

After some questions, it became clear that the husband did not know which opening to use and had been having anal sex with her without lubricant.

My brother spent some time explaining how things work.

If you go on the web, you can find “nervous bride” sites for religious women. If you look at the questions and answers there, you will find the blind led by the frustrated.