Wow. I could write a long screed about this, but how about this nugget:

The worst part of this “submission” system is that it creates a marriage with one adult and one child. One of you must carry the entire weight of the responsibility for a family, and God really intended for families to be two adults and the kids, not one adult, one full-sized child, and the kids.

Check Psalms 31 for more information.

Staying at home means taking full responsibility for childcare and home chores, not becoming a little girl who never leaves home.