re: #166 retired cynic
(Yes, I tried to get the bank to stop the withdrawal, but they tell me I would have to cancel my current debit card and get a new one. That opens up all sorts of grief, but if I have to, I will. GAH!!!!)
You just need to prepare not to use the card for a few days, until the new one arrives. And put ALL your automatic payments on a credit card. Yes, you have to pay off the card, but the ease of stopping payments makes it worth it.