re: #163 Spare O’Lake

Phony, not phoney. Phoney is when you speak nonsense on the phone a lot.
Assuming role play to be purposeful behaviour, it is inherently phony.
Can you explain why you ask?

I’m a pretty masculine upper middle class guy, and I generally date ‘petite’ feminine women from a similar socio-economic background. How is that any more or any less of a role than a gay man who embraces an even more masculine side and dates similar men?