re: #159 Dianna

I am aghast. I am also sure those are exceptions.

I was waiting for the punch-line, “But then, how can we be sure we’re getting a lawyer?”

Yes, I admit that is an extreme case, but if you come up in a culture where you just never talk about it, and you can’t talk about it, and it is sinful to want it - and particularly sinful for a woman to want it, how good is it likely to be on average.

Women are a bit more complicated then men sexually. If he has no clue, and she can not talk about it, how good can it be for her?