re: #164 avanti

I had the same with one young friend that after a few beers got up the nerve to ask me if it was normal for her to never climax with her husband. As it turned out, foreplay was a kiss or two, than one or two minutes of intercourse.
She finally had real sex with her second husband, and 3 kids to show for the effort.

2-3 Minutes? Can that be considered spousal abuse? I consider anything less than 20 minutes a quickie.