re: #216 Spare O’Lake

I never said it was or wasn’t role-playing.

What did you mean by this question, then, after the discussion on bears?

Is there more of an obsession with phony role-playing among gays than in society at large, or is it just that it attracts more attention from gawkers?

You’re claiming you weren’t calling being a bear ‘phony role-playing’, but the question just arose randomly with no connection to the discussion of bears?