re: #175 LudwigVanQuixote
Yes, I admit that is an extreme case, but if you come up in a culture where you just never talk about it, and you can’t talk about it, and it is sinful to want it - and particularly sinful for a woman to want it, how good is it likely to be on average.
Women are a bit more complicated then men sexually. If he has no clue, and she can not talk about it, how good can it be for her?
I think…that the plural of anecdote is not data, but gossip. I think…that you are responding to something you’ve encountered, somewhere, a generalizing to an extent I find eye-brow raising.
Honestly, I don’t care for this broad-brush approach. I’ve met many religious women who quite clearly enjoyed contact with their husbands. I do not presume to tell you that they’re having great sex, but they certainly seemed happy.