I have a hard time with some other guys on the spectrum since many of them are obsessed with this wrong idea that women have it “easier” than me when it comes to dating. Does it bother me a little as an introvert that societal constructs say I should initiate? Sure, I won’t lie, it does but I also know as a guy, I am under much less pressure to maintain my looks. I can be a little heavy and I won’t be judged harshly. I can go a week without shaving and not really feel judged.