re: #248 HappyWarrior

I’m so sorry for what you had to experience. I wish you all the best.

Oh, I’m ok. I’ve had a whole lot of help and an amazing husband. I’m tough as hell now. Last person that tangled with me regretted it enormously. But he was not in a professional position of power over me. He had nothing he could hold over my head. So, I didn’t have the math of, “If I defend myself, what will happen to my career?” And that’s the math a lot of women have to perform. “Do i report it and burn down my career, or take it and deal with it when it ends?”

I posted that because I want people to realize that I am not rare. People face this daily, and people like Moore, Weinstein, Louis CK, Kevin Spacey…there’s never just one victim. Throw in the kind of power these men had over the people they lured in and it’s beyond disgusting. I try to be a sweet, loving person, but gelding is too good for them.