Ben is triggered by the fact that there are people who donāt conform to his concept of gender identity . Got news for ya Benny, the world isnāt just for you. You donāt have to like or even understand that transgendered parents exist but they do exist and it really sucks for you that it chaps your ass because the concept of unconditional love is so foreign to you because your parents obviously didnāt love you enough or otherwise you wouldnāt be the miserable prick that you are.