re: #2 researchok
Commemorating Adam Lanza in the same way and at the same time as his victims in inappropriate.
One may see Adam Lanza as a victim but that in no way means an equality with those who died as a result of his actions.
Agreed. To commemorate the slayer alongside the slain is just wrong. Lanza may have been dealt a bad hand, and he didn’t get the help he needed, but he was sane when he made the decision to murder those children. That being true, to accord him an equality with those he killed would be obscene.