re: #359 JordanRules

I know you honestly believe that. You want to give folks the benefit of the doubt and you hope for and see the best in people. And that’s a good thing! At what point do bigoted words mean you’re a bigot though? Maya Angelou says when someone shows you who they are, believe them.

That’s what I honestly want to figure out. As I said, it’s a close family member. One I’ve never seen go out of his way to be a jerk to a PoC simply because tehy were a poc. I really want to think this is just insensitivity due to white privilege and frankly being kind of arrogant.