re: #13 reine.de.tout

They represent themselves.

I worked with a married man well known for his many affairs with the women in his office.

And he was active in his church, a lector, communion server, etc.
pfft.

The face he presented to people in church was MUCH different than his real face. Height of hypocrisy. You see those folks hiding behind those nics? That’s their real face, and their family is aware of it, for sure. But you can bet what they present to the world at large is much different - I’m just very glad I don’t have anyone like those people in my life, I keep a big distance.

There are, unfortunately, LOTS of folks like this.
All you can do, is recognize them for what they are, and avoid them.