Expressing my opinion isn’t playing victim.
Maybe you see it that way when a person has a different opinion than yours.
But it’s truly not.If you make a general statement about people who think like I do, that they are all bigots, then you have called me a bigot. So - why would YOU want to do that?
But reine, some of those people do not think like you do, and those are the ones being denigrated. If I read your post right you believe that gays can be married in a church if the church is willing. The proponents of proposition #8 do not want even that. They want it to be impossible for gays to get married, period.