His first sexual encounter must have been excruciatingly uncomfortable or awkward.

I can understand how once first experience with the opposite sex that is other than platonic goes awry it could imprint a hatred of sex on a persons psyche, and make them see sex as nothing but a necessary evil.

But then again, the only way to change ones opinion on this is to continue, over and over and over again the offending activity. And then some more. And the freakier the better amirite?