re: #401 HappyWarrior

I understand that standards change and I guess part of the reason why I am a bit idealistic about this is my age but I do think being upfront helps, also acknowledging why it’s offensive, and how you plan to or have learned from it.

And they should, but here’s the thing: I don’t remember a whole lot of details from anything more than about 20 years ago (I’m 49). Unless it was a thing they knew was iffy back then and doing it really stuck, they may not remember it. I think we really have to measure how they react if it comes out, but they will get way more points if they are the ones that expose it.