re: #446 Justanotherhuman
I didn’t have a “crush” until I was 13
hell, I had hundreds of “crushes” well before and well after 13!
My problem was, I was so awkward around girls, so tongue tied and intimidated, I don’t think I asked a girl out on an actual “date” until I was in my early 20’s.
But then,, once the genie was out of the bottle,,,,,,,,I figured out that a “no thank you” answer was just one step closer to the “next” girl saying “yes, that sounds nice”