re: #453 goddamnedfrank
Wait, what? I mean, okay sure that’s kind of dickish behavior, especially couched in those terms, but at some point the woman’s agency has to factor in. If there’s not even a hint of implied thread, force or trickery involved then the guy is just being a whiney jackass, and their partner has every opportunity to tell them to go pound sand, as it were. I’m not sure it helps rape victims to so heavily dilute the term.
Thank you for that. I could not have said it as well as you did.