re: #46 7-y (Expectation of Great Things in Due Course)
I ordinarily enjoy your opinion, but not this one. When I was 30, in 1997, I met my wife, Sheila, who was then 19. It was love at first sight, it was dating, it was not oppression, and we are still together with three kids and a second grandchild on the way.
Humans vary!
19 is different from 14, but your point is taken.