If masculinity can be undone with a simple change of clothes, it was never very strong to begin with

— Laura Jedeed (Misanthrophile) (@1misanthrophile) November 16, 2020

YOu know what might screw more guys up than anything?

The pressure of having to live up to screwed up ideals of masculinity, often interwoven with Christian dominionist bullshit, and feeling like society brands you a failure out of the womb if you can’t live up to it.

Maybe, just maybe, that fucks people up more than a pop star deciding to wear a dress. Just fucking saying.