re: #34 LudwigVanQuixote

Lots of gay men “do their duty” and have kids.

Lots of men are a little bi.

It’s pretty common really. I’m not one of these ones who believes that absolutely everyone is a little bi or bi-curious, however, I am certain that it is much more common than many might think.

I was being snarky… I’ve actually had a gay man tell me the kids were overcompensation for my latent homosexual tendencies.

You are correct - wanting and loving children and sexual attraction are two different things. In my life I’ve been blessed to have lots of both with my partner of 22 years.

I will admit to some jealousy watching designer shows when a gay childless couple are showing off the farm their dual incomes were able to purchase in connecticut. There’s always a trade off.