re: #3 Tigger2005

Why is it necessary to qualify your relationship as boring STRAIGHT monogamous? There’s such a thing as boring GAY monogamous too. Also, I hear some people don’t find their monogamous relationships, gay or straight, boring! Can you only be conservative by living a boring life?

It’s not the LIFE that’s boring. It’s the stretches where you lay the foundations for future zest and daring, by playing parts of it boring, that are boring.

“Conservative” has many meanings. One of them seems to be “Bad Bad Dog”. But to me, it means wise husbandry of resources, including environmental resources, financial resources, and reserves of trust.

These resources can then be a factor in reaching the great goals one has in life. Because they’re there, not squandered.