You can’t “teach men how not to rape ” . You must throw them in jail the first time , hopefully they haven’t killed , but they eventually will when we give them light sentences . Most rapist /murderers are no strangers to law enforcement .
Trouble with our military is , they do not prosecute many cases , thus women fear even reporting rapes . Unfortiunately it is hard to successfully prosecute even with DNA EVIDENCE.
In the miltary however that is a controlled situation and someone just isn’t getting the word out . Rape will no doubt still occur , but not in the horrendous numbers that now plague the military .

Rapists like pedophiles cannot be reformed , they must either be given life sentences or sentences so severe that they will be too old to overcome a victim after release . Pedophile however can still overcome victims into old age , that is why they should never be rleased at all .