re: #58 blueraven

It could also be she was in total denial. I find it hard to believe there were no clues at all. But I have known women whose husbands were having affairs, practically on front of their face, yet they were always surprised and “the last one to know”

Or she could have known something was up and been afraid to say anything. Many possibilities here.

It’s true.

I won’t deny that one possibility is that she knew and was involved. Another possibility is that she knew but he threatened their child if she told anyone.

In the absence of other evidence, Occam’s razor makes me think that she probably didn’t put all the clues together, even if she saw the components.