re: #58 blueraven
It could also be she was in total denial. I find it hard to believe there were no clues at all. But I have known women whose husbands were having affairs, practically in front of their face, yet they were always surprised and “the last one to know”
Or she could have known something was up and been afraid to say anything. Many possibilities here.
That is much more believable. He did abuse her and she might have been scared to say anything about what they were doing.