re: #59 Wendell Zurkowitz ((slave to the waffle light))

I have no problem with fantasies. I have no problem with people sharing their fantasies in print or film or even acting them out…with consenting adult partners.

What part of “consenting adult” do people have trouble understanding?

The problem with his essay is they way he characterizes the fantasy as ubiquitous to both genders and the modern societal reaction to & rejection of it as relationship destroying.