re: #138 MsJ

Fox News Brain.

sorry, no to most of those stories

it’s the same thing happening to the country only writ small. these people were always there - we didnt look, or it wasnt so obvious.

these folks are trying to simultaneous maintain two biographies for the same person and the dissonance won’t let ‘em

your trump supporting, fox news watching, immigrant hating, anti science, etc ‘mom’ is not the mythical sweet, loving woman who baked you cookies when you were five

- because she never was the person you created your first narrative from - you were younger, didnt see everything, werent privy to everything…whatever

- or she has so fundamentally shifted that she no longer is that person and your memory, accurate or no, is all that’s left. the real person is lost for all time and isnt coming back.

for your own sanity you have to give up one narrative or the other.

i’ve been through this. brutally. thankfully not with politics. with eldercare and personality altering medications.

it works exactly the same and your sanity will not reconcile the two.