By the way, my all-time example of a song that is a classic but actually horrifying is Getting Better by The Beatles.

I used to be cruel to my woman
I beat her and kept her apart from the things that she loved
Man, I was mean but I’m changing my scene
And I’m doing the best that I can (Fool, you fool)

Like, yeah I used to commit a lot of domestic violence but I know that’s not great and I’m trying to cut way back.