Want to hear what actual slaves thought of marriage under slavery?

As John Anderson explained: “I did not want to marry a girl belonging to my own place, because I knew I could not bear to see her ill-treated.” Moses Grandy agreed he wrote: “no colored man wishes to live at the house where his wife lives, for he has to endure the continual misery of seeing her flogged and abused without daring to say a word in her defence.” As Henry Bibb pointed out: “If my wife must be exposed to the insults and licentious passions of wicked slave-drivers and overseers. Heaven forbid that I should be compelled to witness the sight.”

And imagine watching your child get beaten in front of you, with now chance to help him.

Yeah, that’s ‘raising’ a child alright.