re: #175 klys (maker of Silmarils)

I have friends who are now expecting after years of trying. Yes, they have thought it all the way through. They’re well aware of what’s at risk here. They’re also not willing to give up, and they are most definitely not unfit.

You don’t have to want to have a kid right now, or ever, to be able to respect other people’s ability to make that decision for themselves.

I would point out that is not my position. That is hers. She is firmly of the position that birthing a child now is cruel to the child. That is something I am not going to move her from. She is in fact anti-choice in the sense that a child born now, in her opinion, is being born into sure death.