re: #205 tradewind

Notwithstanding the fact that wiki is not always factual, if a family has waited months for a wanted child and the child dies before birth, there may be a very real need to grieve and accept that death as real rather than ’ it never was’, which would be the experience of the siblings. You or I may not agree with it, but it’s not our call.

I disagree. There are acceptable parameters of behavior.

I am not saying his grief was not real or tragically painful. Nevertheless, engaging in that kind of behavior puts into question his judgment as far as I am concerned.

I’m not sure I want him making decisions when the going gets tough.