re: #28 Eclectic Cyborg
Not a problem for this white dude. I feel you though, I really do.
My conflict is this. I worry that white bigots may see me and think they can get away with that crap not knowing my philosophy or that I have close cousins who are part African American and that I have a Latina niece. Or if they’re a PoC assuming that I’m unsympathetic. I’m polite to all my clients but I go out of my way to be with PoC and especially women.