You know what else is missing from this rape conversation? The MEN WHO RAPE and what should happen to THEM. Interesting that in all this you never hear these assholes say one fucking word about the violence,the sadism,the hatred of women that a man has to have in his heart to rape in the first place. You never hear what MEN should be doing to prevent rape. Because I know more than one woman who did everything “right”,everything this culture says you should do to not be raped,and guess what? It happened anyway. Rape won’t cease to be a problem until just as many men as women advocate just as long and just as loud as women have. This culture shames the victims and survivors but not the predators,why is that?