re: #59 Rev_Arthur_Belling
It’s all about the stigma. If you can release the self-shaming, it’s the best thing, for you and humanity. (disclaimer: not shame about child pr0n or the like, but closet stuff, etc.)
There is a big distinction between consensual activities between adults and anything else.
My first girlfriend was raised very Catholic, and no matter if all the doors were closed and the blinds shut, there was still a nun in the room staring disapprovingly over her shoulder…