re: #606 A Mom Anon

You’re very sweet to offer, but I think we’d have to lie like a mofo, lol. My last paid job was 21 yrs ago and I have literally NO idea where anyone who I could use for a reference is now. I have no professional references at all.

No lying needed. I focus on achievements. You’ve done “volunteer” work as an advocate, for example. Bullet point tasks performed, list achievements. Skills (especially communication - oral and verbal) and playing nice with others, e.g., team player) can be highlighted.

I’ve helped others without good working histories. Remember, you’re not looking for a gig as CEO (customer service phone rep, for example, gets you out if retail and usually into a job with benefits and upward mobility). A well written resume gets you through doors, which is the hardest part.

I’m here if you ever change your mind.