re: #802 tradewind

I tend to agree with you, but there are some of those cases where the wives were well aware from if not the start, pretty soon after, and decided to stay and play along. Who knows what goes on inside a marriage? Maybe some of the decisions were mutual.
But it does seem hard to imagine how it doesn’t end up hurting the children badly, to one degree or another.

I’ve known a few men who were hurt pretty badly by their wives coming out of the closet. Generally they have no clue.