Pastor accused of abusing his daughter denies charges, gets huge ovation from his church
Megachurch pastor Creflo Dollar staunchly denied Sunday that he punched and choked his 15-year-old daughter in an argument, telling his congregation the allegations made in a police report are nothing but “exaggeration and sensationalism.”
“I will say this emphatically: I should have never been arrested,” Dollar said in his first public appearance two days after police charged him with misdemeanor counts of simple battery and cruelty to children.
The pastor got an enthusiastic ovation as he took the pulpit Sunday at the World Changers Church International in metro Atlanta. He addressed the criminal charges head-on for several minutes before moving on to his sermon.
“I want you all to hear personally from me that all is well in the Dollar household,” Dollar said.
Dollar is one of the most prominent African-American preachers based around Atlanta, with 30,000 members in the Atlanta area and a ministry of satellite churches across the U.S.
He was arrested after his 15-year-old daughter called 911 at about 1 a.m. Friday and told a Fayette County sheriff’s deputy that she and her father argued when he said she couldn’t go to a party. A police report says the girl told a deputy her father charged at her, put his hands around her throat, began to punch her and started hitting her with his shoe. The deputy noted a scratch on her neck.
The report said the deputy also interviewed Dollar’s 19-year-old daughter, who said her father grabbed her sister’s shoulders and slapped her in the face and choked her for about five seconds. She said her sister tried to break free, but did not fight back. When her father threw the 15-year-old on the floor, the older girl ran to get her mother. Dollar’s wife, Taffi, told the deputy she did not see the fight.
Dollar launched into a lengthy denial of the allegations from the pulpit Sunday.
“The truth is that a family conversation with our youngest daughter got emotional,” he said. “And emotions got involved and things escalated from there.”
He said the mark on his daughter’s neck had been there for about 10 years and was caused by a skin condition, eczema.
“The truth is she was not choked, she was not punched. There were not any scratches on her neck,” Dollar said. “But the only thing on her neck was a prior skin abrasion from eczema. Anything else is exaggeration and sensationalism.”
Dollar’s congregation appeared supportive Sunday, giving him sustained applause as he took the stage.
“I don’t know the full specifics, but I’ve been going here seven years and I trust my pastor,” said Robert Hooper, a 27-year-old retail manager, as he arrived at church. “I know his kids. I know he loves his family. Everybody makes mistakes.”
Now I am a firm believer in “Innocent until proven guilty” and obviously in incidents like this there are almost always conflicting accounts of what happened.
There’s just something about Mr. Dollar’s denial that bothers me. He states he was just a “conversation” that got “emotional” and things “escalated” from there (note he doesn’t elaborate on that at all in his comments).
I’ve been involved in many “conversations” with friends and relatives that got “emotional” and heated, but never to the point where I or any of the other parties involved felt the need to call 911. If his daughter was fearful enough to call for help like that, she obviously felt highly threatened by whatever was going on. To me, that suggests the situation was a little more than a “conversation” that just got out of hand.
I’d also be lying if I said I wasn’t a bit disturbed by his congregation giving him a huge ovation BUT he hasn’t been proven guilty and therefore I can, to an extent, understand the show of support for him.