re: #103 wheat-dogg

Yes, the “Get out of guilt” card. It’s the same escape clause used in Saudi Arabia and other strict Muslim countries — Muslimas have to be virgins, so they’re off limits, but pious Muslim men can still have funsies with non-Muslims, such as the migrants from Southeast Asia and the Philippines.

I was a Russian teaching assistant with Ken Weaver (formerly of The Fugs) and he related to me that when he was attending high school in the 50’s, that there were the girls you dated, whom you did not fuck, and then there were girls you fucked but did not date.

And yet that era represents some sort of ideal that many hearken back to…