re: #102 Blind Frog Belly White

Not to stick my oar in and move this off point, but that question, “Whose attitude was different?” is something that needs consideration.

When I was growing up, there were a lot of things that we now recognize as nonconsensual, even as rape, that were just ‘not something nice guys do’.

I remember that attitude: there were virtuous women that you dated but did not have sex with until marriage, and non-virtuous women that you just fucked and dumped.

That attitude was common well into the 60’s and only started to change then but it was still prevalent and still shapes our thinking about sexual relations to this day