re: #133 marjoriemoon

Its kind of a chicken and the egg scenario. As a feminist I do not want to objectify women. But being attracted women it is hard not to. I try not to with every day women, but the force feeding of images by the media makes it very difficult. It is actually one of the reasons I denied my attraction to women for so long. It wasn’t that I was attracted to women, it was just that women are sexualized and presented as objects apart from their humanity. Male gaze I believe is the reference in women’s studies. So what if I was thinking about doing women when I got off sometimes, it was just a larger part of the cultural sexualization of women.

Sometimes people think too much. Then I fell in love with a women.