In terms of misogyny and social responses, this is something that I think can be mitigated. This is certainly something that must be mitigated.

However I do not think it can possibly ever be solved, without fundamentally changing the nature of human beings.

Before you read what I am about to write, I beg you not to read in any anger or any bitterness. I am simply writing about what I have observed in the way people tend to behave. It is also with the clear understanding that it takes two to tango.

The one clear advantage that women have always had over men is that many women can easily get most men to jump through all sorts of hoops with even just a hint of a promise of sexuality. Most women have figured this out. Most (if not all) straight women have exploited this basic aspect of human hardwiring to a greater or lesser extent in their own relationships. Many exploit it so casually that they do not even notice.

This is the root problem. To other women, who “slut shame” they are putting down their rivals by assuming that their rivals got places by this exploitation. In many cases, they are also no doubt jealous that they failed to exploit it first themselves, or worse, tried and failed. In cases where the accused woman actually did use the exploit, then those who did not exploit, rather rightly, think she cheated.

As to men. Every single straight man has met a dozen women who flirted at them as an attempt to manipulate. In many minds, she made a sort of contract with him. I am not saying that she did. I am just saying that many think that way, and for the manipulation to even work in the first place, it depends on men thinking that way.

If he ever gets wise to it, the fact that she meant nothing by it only adds to the resentment. Every man has that one gf who broke his heart or that one co-worker who gets her way with winks or wiggles or wears whatever revealing clothing, and he knows what she is up to.

The typical male response to this is anger. No one likes to be played for a fool.

I have been ruminating a lot about how very negatively I come down on the Fox News women for their teased hair and short skirts and featured bosoms. You know what? They dress like that on purpose. They are using their bodies and their sexuality to sell evil lies that hurt people and propaganda that hurts the nation as a whole. I have no problem calling them disgusting whores because they are.

I want to take this a little further. It is absolutely true that many times a man calls a woman he desires, but who wouldn’t ever sleep with him, a “slut” out of anger and rejection.

What is much worse for a woman, is a man who himself, would never desire that woman, because he finds her repugnant, and she tries that crap on him. I call the filthy, repulsive, gutter sluts on Fox News, whores and mean it precisely because of the insult when they presume their tits will shut down my brain enough to buy their propaganda. It is not that I desire them or ever would desire them. They stand for things I consider evil. I despise their values. The thought of being intimate with a woman like that is repulsive to me. That she would invade my mental space by trying to project her sexuality into it, with an agenda that I find repulsive, makes me despise her instead of just her ideas.

This is all a long way of saying that The main larger problem is that women will never escape resent of their sexuality from men and other women, until most women never exploit their sexuality and most men stop falling for it. That si not going to happen.